the point is in how to refine and control himself. 在社交中,人人都想要别人看到自己最好的一面而不是最糟糕的一面。但关键在于如何 优化和克制自我。 6. to feel sth. deeply about sb.(L.40)在某人身上深深感受到 When you find what you feel deeply about your lover is just what you have been longing for, it is the ripe time to propose to her/him 当你发现在恋人身上深深感受到的东西正是你长期渴望的,求婚的时机就成熟了 17. to approach sth. with a(n)... attitude. (L. 43)( to begin to consider or deal with 以 态度对待/处理某事 We should approach criticism with such an honest attitude that we correct mistakes if we have made any and guard against them if we have not 对待批评要诚恳:做到:有则改之,无则加勉 18. suspect: vt believe( esp sth. bad)to true or likely Doubt: vt. believe that sth is probably not true or possible I suspect they are very disa 我猜想他们会很失望。 We suspect they 'll be a little late 我们揣测他们会晚来一会儿。 I doubt that he 'll come o 我怀疑他是不会来了。 i doubt what he said 我不太相信他说的话 19. to resolve all doubt( to find a solution)(L.63)消除疑虑 For others to resolve doubt about your abilities, the bottom line consists not in what you say 要想让别人对你的能力消除疑虑,关键不在于你说什么,而在于你做什么。 20. to be never too….to..(L.65)永远不会太 以致不能 If you admit life is full of beauty, be never too busy to enjoy the wonder of life 如果你承认生活充满了美,那千万不要过于忙碌以致不能享受生活的美妙。 Sentence patterns: 1. Typical patterns for showing the changes of one's mind 2. Typical patterns for expressing one's disapproval of doing sth 3. Typical patterns for expressing ones reservations about sth 1. Typical patterns for showing the changes of one's mind FRA]: To start with I must admit that at first I harbored reservations about a mixed marriage But when I met Mark, I found him a charming and intelligent young guy. (L. 28) 首先我必须承认,刚开始我对异族通婚是有保留的,…但当我见到马克时我发现他 是一个既讨人喜欢又聪明的年轻人 句型提炼: To start with,sb. admits( feels/ believes) that at first( at the beginning).. But when (as)., he/she found (realized )that 首先某人承认(感到/认为),起初, 但是当 时,某人发现(感觉到)the point is in how to refine and control himself. 在社交中，人人都想要别人看到自己最好的一面而不是最糟糕的一面。但关键在于如何 优化和克制自我。 16. to feel sth. deeply about sb. (L. 40) 在某人身上深深感受到······ When you find what you feel deeply about your lover is just what you have been longing for, it is the ripe time to propose to her / him. 当你发现在恋人身上深深感受到的东西正是你长期渴望的，求婚的时机就成熟了。 17. to approach sth. with a(n) … attitude. (L. 43) ( to begin to sconsider or deal with) 以······态度对待／处理某事 We should approach criticism with such an honest attitude that we correct mistakes if we have made any and guard against them if we have not. 对待批评要诚恳；做到：有则改之，无则加勉。 18. suspect: vt. believe ( esp. sth. bad) to true or likely Doubt: vt. believe that sth is probably not true or possible I suspect they are very disappointed. 我猜想他们会很失望。 We suspect they’ll be a little late. 我们揣测他们会晚来一会儿。 I doubt that he’ll come。 我怀疑他是不会来了。 I doubt what he said. 我不太相信他说的话。 19. to resolve all doubt ( to find a solution) (L. 63) 消除疑虑 For others to resolve doubt about your abilities, the bottom line consists not in what you say but in what you do. 要想让别人对你的能力消除疑虑，关键不在于你说什么，而在于你做什么。 20. to be never too … to … (L. 65) 永远不会太······以致不能······ If you admit life is full of beauty, be never too busy to enjoy the wonder of life. 如果你承认生活充满了美，那千万不要过于忙碌以致不能享受生活的美妙。 Sentence patterns: 1. Typical patterns for showing the changes of one’s mind 2. Typical patterns for expressing one’s disapproval of doing sth. 3. Typical patterns for expressing one’s reservations about sth. 1. Typical patterns for showing the changes of one’s mind 原句: To start with I must admit that at first I harbored reservations about a mixed marriage, …. But when I met Mark, I found him a charming and intelligent young guy. (L. 28) 首先我必须承认，刚开始我对异族通婚是有保留的,······但当我见到马克时,我发现他 是一个既讨人喜欢又聪明的年轻人。 句型提炼: To start with, sb. admits ( feels / believes) that at first ( at the beginning) … But when (as) …, he / she found (realized) that… 首先某人承认(感到/认为),起初，······ 但是当······时,某人发现(感觉到)······