Being women together was not enough. We were different. Being gay-girls together was not enough. We were different. Being black together was not enough We were different. Being black women together was not enough We were different. being black dykes together was not enough We were different.. It was a while before we came to realize that our place was the very house of difference rather than the security of any one particular difference• “Being women together was not enough. We were different. Being gay-girls together was not enough. We were different. Being Black together was not enough. We were different. Being Black women together was not enough. We were different. Being Black dykes together was not enough. We were different. . . It was a while before we came to realize that our place was the very house of difference rather than the security of any one particular difference