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When you want something-or want to share something-be honest about it.Expressing your desires might feel uncomfortable,but it gives the other person a fighting chance to give you what you really want. 4.Be A Giver We're always looking to gain something from other people:positive emotions,knowledge, gifts.This is fine:humans are selfish by nature."What's in it for me?"is the first question we subconsciously ask ourselves. The problem is,you can't just take and take in relationships.If you don't give back something of equal or greater value,there's no reason for other people to stay around you. That's why investing yourself into relationships works so well.Make people feel good;gift them your undivided attention;make time for those who really matter.Giving value is the best way to be appreciated by the people around you. 5.Let Go Of the Need To Be Right If we disagree with a person,we get angry.If we disapprove of something,we judge.If we feel we know best,we give unsolicited advice.In short,being right feels good;being wrong feels bad. But when you think about it,nobody likes being told what to do.Unless a person explicitly asks for advice,they want to be understood-not lectured.When dealing with other people,let go of the need to be right. That means you don't force your opinion on other people.Don't be pushy,self-righteous and judgmental-no matter how you might feel.Even when you think you're right, understand that different people have different opinions! Accept other people for what they are,right or wrong,and they'll love you for it. Conclusion In today's world,it's always about"me,me,me."This is why our relationships with friends, family and romantic partners are weak.You can't connect with other people if you're thinking about yourself all the time! The best way to build better relationships with everyone is through positivity.From listening to other people to letting go of the temptation to judge,the tips in this post are all based on being a good person. Now apply these techniques to your life and build better relationships with everyone Did you find any of these tips useful?Do you have more ideas on building better relationships with people?Leave a comment;I'd love to hear from you!When you want something – or want to share something – be honest about it. Expressing your desires might feel uncomfortable, but it gives the other person a fighting chance to give you what you really want. 4. Be A Giver We’re always looking to gain something from other people: positive emotions, knowledge, gifts. This is fine: humans are selfish by nature. “What’s in it for me?” is the first question we subconsciously ask ourselves. The problem is, you can’t just take and take in relationships. If you don’t give back something of equal or greater value, there’s no reason for other people to stay around you. That’s why investing yourself into relationships works so well. Make people feel good; gift them your undivided attention; make time for those who really matter. Giving value is the best way to be appreciated by the people around you. 5. Let Go Of the Need To Be Right If we disagree with a person, we get angry. If we disapprove of something, we judge. If we feel we know best, we give unsolicited advice. In short, being right feels good; being wrong feels bad. But when you think about it, nobody likes being told what to do. Unless a person explicitly asks for advice, they want to be understood – not lectured. When dealing with other people, let go of the need to be right. That means you don’t force your opinion on other people. Don’t be pushy, self-righteous and judgmental– no matter how you might feel. Even when you think you’re right, understand that different people have different opinions! Accept other people for what they are, right or wrong, and they’ll love you for it. Conclusion In today’s world, it’s always about “me, me, me.” This is why our relationships with friends, family and romantic partners are weak. You can’t connect with other people if you’re thinking about yourself all the time! The best way to build better relationships with everyone is through positivity. From listening to other people to letting go of the temptation to judge, the tips in this post are all based on being a good person. Now apply these techniques to your life and build better relationships with everyone. Did you find any of these tips useful? Do you have more ideas on building better relationships with people? Leave a comment; I’d love to hear from you!
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