Comprehensive English II Unit 12 A Fundamental Technique in Handling People School of Foreign Languages
Comprehensive English II School of Foreign Languages Unit 12 A Fundamental Technique in Handling People
Contents Background Information Vocabulary Expressions Critical Reading Discussion Writing Assignments
Contents Background Information Vocabulary & Expressions Critical Reading Discussion & Writing Assignments
Part 1 Background Information 0 Warming up Dale Carnegie Relevant information
Part 1 Background Information Warming up Dale Carnegie Relevant information
Warming up 1.Have you ever read a book on self-improvement?If so,do you find it useful? 2.Do you follow certain principles of your own in handling personal relationships? 3.In your opinion,what can strengthen or ruin a good interpersonal relationship? Share your answer with the whole class
Warming up 1. Have you ever read a book on self-improvement? If so, do you find it useful? 2. Do you follow certain principles of your own in handling personal relationships? 3. In your opinion, what can strengthen or ruin a good interpersonal relationship? Share your answer with the whole class
can strengthen/benefit a good interpersonal relationship? Mutual understanding Selflessness/ Reasoning Generosity Forgiving Communication/Maturity Common interests/ Empathy/Honesty Sincerity Genuineness/ Consideration/Respect/Responsibility Kindness Care Praise Compliment
_ can strengthen/benefit a good interpersonal relationship? ❖Mutual understanding / Selflessness / Reasoning / Generosity / Forgiving / Communication / Maturity / Common interests / Empathy / Honesty / Sincerity / Genuineness / Consideration / Respect / Responsibility / Kindness / Care / Praise / Compliment
can bring harm to /ruin a good interpersonal relationship? Selfishness /Sophistication Lack of consideration Hypocrisy Hatred Insincerity Immaturity Lack of communication Meanness Disloyalty/ Pessimism/Arrogance/Irresponsibility/ Criticism Complaints /
_ can bring harm to /ruin a good interpersonal relationship? ❖Selfishness / Sophistication / Lack of consideration / Hypocrisy / Hatred / ❖Insincerity / Immaturity / Lack of communication / Meanness / Disloyalty / Pessimism / Arrogance / Irresponsibility / ❖Criticism / Complaints /
Warming up theme of the text 3.What is the "fundamental technique in handling people according to the author? Dale Carnegie's central idea is that if we want to learn how to handle people,we must always remember not to criticize them,not to speak ill of them,or ridicule them;not to indulge in fault-finding and gossiping about others'mistakes or weaknesses,because if we do,it will always hurt people's pride,create bad feelings,make them defensive,and destroy their confidence. Therefore,the best way of handling people is to withhold our criticisms and show our understanding and trust.We should all be quick to recognize others'virtues and be generous with our praise for their achievements
Warming up 3. What is the “fundamental technique in handling people” according to the author? ❖ Dale Carnegie’s central idea is that if we want to learn how to handle people, we must always remember not to criticize them, not to speak ill of them, or ridicule them; not to indulge in fault-finding and gossiping about others’ mistakes or weaknesses,because if we do, it will always hurt people’s pride, create bad feelings, make them defensive, and destroy their confidence. Therefore, the best way of handling people is to withhold our criticisms and show our understanding and trust. We should all be quick to recognize others’ virtues and be generous with our praise for their achievements. theme of the text
Author Dale Breckenridge Carnegie(1888-1955)was an American writer and lecturer and the developer of famous courses in self- improvement,salesmanship,corporate training,public speaking, and interpersonal skills. UM2 His focus is on dealing with and motivating people successfully. His common sense approach is easy to understand and apply in both personal and business relationships. Born into poverty on a farm in Missouri,he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People(中译《人性的弱点》1936)， a massive bestseller that remains popular today.He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living(中译《人性的优点》1948)， Lincoln the Unknown(中译《林肯传》l932),and several other books. One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's behavior toward them. hap cen winipeard otg win Daic camce正
Dale Breckenridge Carnegie (1888-1955) was an American writer and lecturer and the developer of famous courses in selfimprovement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills. His focus is on dealing with and motivating people successfully. His common sense approach is easy to understand and apply in both personal and business relationships. Born into poverty on a farm in Missouri, he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People （中译《人性的弱点》1936）, a massive bestseller that remains popular today. He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living （中译《人性的优点》1948 ）, Lincoln the Unknown (中译《林肯传》1932), and several other books. One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's behavior toward them. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dale_Carnegie Author
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Quotations Dale Carnegie One of the most tragic things "Don't he afraid to give your best to I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off what scemingly are small jobsEve living.We are all dreaming of SUCCESS Is time you conguer one it makes you some magical rose garden GETTING WHAT YOU that much stronger.f you do the over the horizon instead of WANT. littlejobswe theil tend to enjoying the roses blooming HAPPINESS IS WANTING WHAT YOU take care of themselves." outside our windows today. GET -Dale Camegie Take a chance!All life is a chance.The man who goes FEAR NOT THOSE WHO farthest is generally the ARGUE one who is willing to do and dare. Any fool can criticize,condemn, BUT THOSE WHO Dale Carnegie and complain-and DODGE most fools do. DALE CARNEGIE Dale Carnegie
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