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CHICAGO JOURNALS Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence Author(s): Adrienne Rich Source: Signs, Vol 5, No. 4, Women: Sex and Sexuality (Summer, 1980), pp. 631-660 Published by: The University of Chicago Press StableUrl:http://www.jstor.org/stable/3173834 Accessed:12/11/200812:12 Your use of the jStOR archive indicates your acceptance of jSTOR's Terms and Conditions of Use, available at http://www.jstor.org/page/info/about/policies/terms.jspJstOr'sTermsandConditionsofUseprovidesinpartthatunless you have obtained prior permission, you may not download an entire issue of a journal or multiple copies of articles, and you ay use content in the JSTOR archive only for your personal, non-commercial use Please contact the publisher regarding any further use of this work. Publisher contact information may be obtained at http://www.jstor.org/action/showpublisher?publishercode=ucpress Each copy of any part of a JSTOR transmission must contain the same copyright notice that appears on the screen or printed of such transmission JStOR is a not-for-profit organization founded in 1995 to build trusted digital archives for scholarship. We work with the holarly community to preserve their work and the materials they rely upon, and to build a common research platform that promotes the discovery and use of these resources. For more information about JSTOR, please contact support@jstor. org The University of Chicago Press is collaborating with JSTOR to digitize, preserve and extend access to Signs ittp://www.jstor.org

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Compulsory heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence Adrienne rich Biologically men have only one innate orientation-a sexual one that draws them to women -while women have two innate orienta tions, sexual toward men and reproductive toward their young I was a woman terribly vulnerable, critical, using femaleness as a sort of standard or yardstick to measure and discard men. yes- ublished Carroll Smith-Rosenberg's now classic article, The Female World of Love and Ritual Relations between Women in Nineteenth-Century America. The following summer ap- Culture and Society, vol. 1, no. 4[Summer 1976) Among scholarly articles, these two provided, in different ways, a point of departure for ny thinking in this essay. I am deeply indebted also to the growing body of lesbian research in other journals, including Blanche w. Cook's "Female Support Networks and Political Activism. " Chrysalis 3(1977): 43-61; and Lorraine Bethel,s"This Infinity of Consciot Pain: Zora Neale Hurston and the black Female Literary Tradition, " lecture given at the Harlem Studio Museum, May 1978, forthcoming in Black Women's Studies, ed. Gloria Hull, Elaine Bell Scott, and Barbara Smith(Old Westbury, N.Y.: Feminist Press, 1980); by several books published in the last few years: Kathleen Barry, Female Sexual Slavery(En glewood Cliffs, N.J. Prentice-Hall, Inc., 1979): Mary Daly, Gyn/Ecology. The Metaethics of Radical Feminism( Boston: Beacon Press, 1978): Susan Griffin, Woman and Nature: The Ro ing Inside Her(New York: Harper Row, 1978); Diana Russell and Nicole van de Ven, eds Proceedings of the International Tribunal on Crimes against women(Millbrae, Calif. Les Fem mes, 1976): and by Susan Cavin s dissertation in sociology, "Lesbian Origins: An Hystorical d Cross-cultural Analysis of Sex Ratios, Female Sexuality and Homo-sexual Segregation ersus Hetero-sexual Integration Patterns in Relation to the Liberation of Women"(Ph. D diss., Rutgers University, 1978) 1. Alice Rossi, "Children and Work in the Lives of Women"(paper delivered at the University of Arizona, Tucson, February 1976) The University of Chicago. 0097-974080050H-4-0001$01.00 631

Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence Adrienne Rich I Biologically men have only one innate orientation-a sexual one that draws them to women,-while women have two innate orienta￾tions, sexual toward men and reproductive toward their young.1 ... I was a woman terribly vulnerable, critical, using femaleness as a sort of standard or yardstick to measure and discard men. Yes￾In its first issue (Autumn 1975), Signs: Journal of Women in Culture and Society published Carroll Smith-Rosenberg's now classic article, "The Female World of Love and Ritual: Relations between Women in Nineteenth-Century America." The following summer ap￾peared Joan Kelly's "The Social Relation of the Sexes: Methodological Implications of Women's History (Signs:Journal of Women in Culture and Society, vol. 1, no. 4 [Summer 1976]). Among scholarly articles, these two provided, in different ways, a point of departure for my thinking in this essay. I am deeply indebted also to the growing body of lesbian research in other journals, including Blanche W. Cook's "Female Support Networks and Political Activism," Chrysalis 3 (1977): 43-61; and Lorraine Bethel's "'This Infinity of Conscious Pain': Zora Neale Hurston and the Black Female Literary Tradition," lecture given at the Harlem Studio Museum, May 1978, forthcoming in Black Women's Studies, ed. Gloria Hull, Elaine Bell Scott, and Barbara Smith (Old Westbury, N.Y.: Feminist Press, 1980); by several books published in the last few years: Kathleen Barry, Female Sexual Slavery (En￾glewood Cliffs, N.J.: Prentice-Hall, Inc., 1979): Mary Daly, Gyn/Ecology: The Metaethics of Radical Feminism (Boston: Beacon Press, 1978); Susan Griffin, Woman and Nature: The Roar￾ingInside Her (New York: Harper & Row, 1978); Diana Russell and Nicole van de Ven, eds., Proceedings of the International Tribunal on Crimes against Women (Millbrae, Calif.: Les Fem￾mes, 1976); and by Susan Cavin's dissertation in sociology, "Lesbian Origins: An Hystorical and Cross-cultural Analysis of Sex Ratios, Female Sexuality and Homo-sexual Segregation versus Hetero-sexual Integration Patterns in Relation to the Liberation of Women" (Ph.D. diss., Rutgers University, 1978). 1. Alice Rossi, "Children and Work in the Lives of Women" (paper delivered at the University of Arizona, Tucson, February 1976). [Signs: Journal of Women in Culture and Society 1980, vol. 5, no. 4] ? 1980 by The University of Chicago. 0097-9740/80/0504-0001$01.00 631

632 Rich Compulsory Heterosexuality omething like that. I was an Anna who invited defeat from men without ever being conscious of it.(But I am conscious of it. And being conscious of it means I shall leave it all behind me become--but what?)I was stuck fast in an emotion common women of our time that can turn them bitter, or Lesbian or soli- ary. Yes, that Anna during that time was [Another blank line across the page The bias of compulsory heterosexuality, through which lesbian exper ence is perceived on a scale ranging from deviant to abhorrent, or simply rendered invisible, could be illustrated from many other texts than the two just preceding. The assumption made by Rossi, that women are choice is simply an acting-out of bitterness toward me g, that the lesbian innately sexually oriented"toward men, or by Less n,are by no means heirs alone; they are widely current in literature and in the social sci- ences. I am concerned here with two other matters as well first. how and why womens choice of women as passionate comrades, life partners, co-workers. lovers tribe. has been crushed invalidated. forced into hid ing and disguise; and second, the virtual or total neglect of lesbian exis- tence in a wide range of writings, including feminist scholarship. Obvi ously there is a connection here. I believe that much feminist theory and criticism is stranded on this shoal My organizing impulse is the bel ief that it is not enough for feminist hought that specifically lesbian texts exist. Any theory or cultural/ political creation that treats lesbian existence as a marginal or less"nati al"phenomenon, as mere"sexual preference, " or as the mirror image of either heterosexual or male homosexual relations, is profoundly weakened thereby, whatever its other contributions. Feminist theory can no longer afford merely to voice a toleration of" lesbianism"as an alternative life-style, "or make token allusion to lesbians. A fer minist critique of compulsory heterosexual orientation for women is long over due. In this exploratory paper, I shall try to show why I will begin by way of examples, briefly discussing four books that have appeared in the last few years, written from different viewpoints and political orientations, but all presenting themselves, and favorably reviewed, as feminist. 3 All take as a basic assumption that the socia 2. Doris Lessing, The Golden Notebook(New York: Bantam Books [1962]1977), p. 4 3. Nancy Chodorow, The Reproduction of Mothering(Berkeley: University of California Press, 1978); Dorothy Dinnerstein, The Mermaid and the Minotaur: Sexual Arrangements and the Human Malaise(New York: Harper& Row, 1976); Barbara Ehrenreich and Deirdre English, For Her Own Good: 150 Years of the Experts'Advice to Women(Garden City, N.Y.: Doubleday &Co, Anchor Press, 1978): Jean Baker Miller, Toward a New Psychology of Women(Boston: Beacon Press, 1976

Compulsory Heterosexuality something like that. I was an Anna who invited defeat from men without ever being conscious of it. (But I am conscious of it. And being conscious of it means I shall leave it all behind me and become-but what?) I was stuck fast in an emotion common to women of our time, that can turn them bitter, or Lesbian, or soli￾tary. Yes, that Anna during that time was ... [Another blank line across the page:]2 The bias of compulsory heterosexuality, through which lesbian experi￾ence is perceived on a scale ranging from deviant to abhorrent, or simply rendered invisible, could be illustrated from many other texts than the two just preceding. The assumption made by Rossi, that women are "innately sexually oriented" toward men, or by Lessing, that the lesbian choice is simply an acting-out of bitterness toward men, are by no means theirs alone; they are widely current in literature and in the social sci￾ences. I am concerned here with two other matters as well: first, how and why women's choice of women as passionate comrades, life partners, co-workers, lovers, tribe, has been crushed, invalidated, forced into hid￾ing and disguise; and second, the virtual or total neglect of lesbian exis￾tence in a wide range of writings, including feminist scholarship. Obvi￾ously there is a connection here. I believe that much feminist theory and criticism is stranded on this shoal. My organizing impulse is the belief that it is not enough for feminist thought that specifically lesbian texts exist. Any theory or cultural/ political creation that treats lesbian existence as a marginal or less "natu￾ral" phenomenon, as mere "sexual preference," or as the mirror image of either heterosexual or male homosexual relations, is profoundly weakened thereby, whatever its other contributions. Feminist theory can no longer afford merely to voice a toleration of "lesbianism" as an "alternative life-style," or make token allusion to lesbians. A feminist critique of compulsory heterosexual orientation for women is long over￾due. In this exploratory paper, I shall try to show why. I will begin by way of examples, briefly discussing four books that have appeared in the last few years, written from different viewpoints and political orientations, but all presenting themselves, and favorably reviewed, as feminist.3 All take as a basic assumption that the social 2. Doris Lessing, The Golden Notebook (New York: Bantam Books [1962] 1977), p. 480. 3. Nancy Chodorow, The Reproduction of Mothering (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1978); Dorothy Dinnerstein, The Mermaid and the Minotaur: Sexual Arrangements and the Human Malaise (New York: Harper & Row, 1976); Barbara Ehrenreich and Deirdre English, For Her Own Good: 150 Years of the Experts' Advice to Women (Garden City, N.Y.: Doubleday & Co., Anchor Press, 1978); Jean Baker Miller, Toward a New Psychology of Women (Boston: Beacon Press, 1976). 632 Rich

Summer 1980 633 relations of the sexes are disordered and extremely problematic, if not disabling, for women; all seek paths toward change. I have learned more from some of these books than from others but on this i am clear: each one might have been more accurate, more powerful, more truly a force for change, had the author felt impelled to deal with lesbian existence as a reality, and as a source of knowledge and power available to women; or with the institution of heterosexuality itself as a beachhead of male dominance. In none of them is the question ever raised, whether in a different context, or other things being equal, women would choose het- erosexual coupling and marriage, heterosexuality is presumed as a"sex ual preference"of"most women, " either implicitly or explicitly. In none of these books, which concern themselves with mothering, sex roles elationships, and societal prescriptions for women, is compulsory het erosexuality ever examined as an institution powerfully affecting all these; or the idea of"preference"or"innate orientation"even indirectly questioned In For Her Own Good: 150 Years of the Experts Advice to Women by Barbara Ehrenreich and Deirdre English, the authors' superb pam phlets, witches, Midwives and Nurses: A History of Women Healers, and Complaints and Disorders: The Sexual Politics of sickness, are developed into a provocative and complex study. Their thesis in this book is that the advice given American women by male health professionals, particularly in the areas of marital sex, maternity, and child care, has echoed the dictates of the economic marketplace and the role capitalism has needed women to play in production and/or reproduction. Women have become the consumer victims of various cures, therapies, and normative judg ments in different periods(includ ing the prescription to middle-class 4. I could have chosen many other serious and influential recent books, includi anthologies, which would illustrate the same point: e.g. Our Bodies, Ourselves, the Boston Womens Health Collective's best-seller(New York: Simon Schuster, 1976), which de votes a separate(and inadequate)chapter to lesbians, but whose message is that heterosex- ality is most womens life preference; Berenice Carroll, ed, Liberating Women's History Theoretical and Critical Essays(Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 1976), which does not clude even a token essay on the lesbian presence in history, though an essay by linda Gordon, Persis Hunt, et al. notes the use by male historians of"sexual deviance ategory to discredit and dismiss Anna Howard Shaw, Jane Addams, and other feminists Historical Phallacies: Sexism in American Historical Writing"); and Renate Bridentha nd Claudia Koonz, eds, Becoming Visible: we Mifflin Co., 1977), which contains three mentions of male homosexuality but no materials that I have been able to locate on lesbians. Gerda Lerner, ed, The Female Experience:an Merican Documentary(Indianapolis: Bobbs-Merrill Co., 1977), contains an abridgment of two lesbian/feminist position papers from the contemporary movement but no other doc ian existence. Lerner does note in her preface, however, how the charge of deviance has been used to fragment women and discourage womens resistance. Lind Gordon, in Woman's Body, Woman's Right: A Social History of Birth Control in America(Ney ccurately that: It is not that fe produced more lesbians. There have always been many lesbians, despite high levels of repression; and most lesbians experience their sexual preference as innate... " (p. 410)

Summer 1980 633 relations of the sexes are disordered and extremely problematic, if not disabling, for women; all seek paths toward change. I have learned more from some of these books than from others; but on this I am clear: each one might have been more accurate, more powerful, more truly a force for change, had the author felt impelled to deal with lesbian existence as a reality, and as a source of knowledge and power available to women; or with the institution of heterosexuality itself as a beachhead of male dominance.4 In none of them is the question ever raised, whether in a different context, or other things being equal, women would choose het￾erosexual coupling and marriage; heterosexuality is presumed as a "sex￾ual preference" of "most women," either implicitly or explicitly. In none of these books, which concern themselves with mothering, sex roles, relationships, and societal prescriptions for women, is compulsory het￾erosexuality ever examined as an institution powerfully affecting all these; or the idea of "preference" or "innate orientation" even indirectly questioned. In For Her Own Good: 150 Years of the Experts' Advice to Women by Barbara Ehrenreich and Deirdre English, the authors' superb pam￾phlets, Witches, Midwives and Nurses: A History of Women Healers, and Complaints and Disorders: The Sexual Politics of Sickness, are developed into a provocative and complex study. Their thesis in this book is that the advice given American women by male health professionals, particularly in the areas of marital sex, maternity, and child care, has echoed the dictates of the economic marketplace and the role capitalism has needed women to play in production and/or reproduction. Women have become the consumer victims of various cures, therapies, and normative judg￾ments in different periods (including the prescription to middle-class 4. I could have chosen many other serious and influential recent books, including anthologies, which would illustrate the same point: e.g., Our Bodies, Ourselves, the Boston Women's Health Collective's best-seller (New York: Simon & Schuster, 1976), which de￾votes a separate (and inadequate) chapter to lesbians, but whose message is that heterosex￾uality is most women's life preference; Berenice Carroll, ed., Liberating Women's History: Theoretical and Critical Essays (Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 1976), which does not include even a token essay on the lesbian presence in history, though an essay by Linda Gordon, Persis Hunt, et al. notes the use by male historians of "sexual deviance" as a category to discredit and dismiss Anna Howard Shaw, Jane Addams, and other feminists ("Historical Phallacies: Sexism in American Historical Writing"); and Renate Bridenthal and Claudia Koonz, eds., Becoming Visible: Women in European History (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Co., 1977), which contains three mentions of male homosexuality but no materials that I have been able to locate on lesbians. Gerda Lerner, ed., The Female Experience: An American Documentary (Indianapolis: Bobbs-Merrill Co., 1977), contains an abridgment of two lesbian/feminist position papers from the contemporary movement but no other doc￾umentation of lesbian existence. Lerner does note in her preface, however, how the charge of deviance has been used to fragment women and discourage women's resistance. Linda Gordon, in Woman's Body, Woman's Right: A Social History of Birth Control in America (New York: Viking Press, Grossman, 1976), notes accurately that: "It is not that feminism has produced more lesbians. There have always been many lesbians, despite high levels of repression; and most lesbians experience their sexual preference as innate . . ." (p. 410). Signs

women to embody and preserve the sacredness of the home-the"scien tific"romanticization of the home itself). None of the" experts"advice has been either particularly scientific or women-oriented; it has reflected male needs, male fantasies about women, and male interest in control particularly in the realms of sexuality and motherhood used with the requirements of industrial capitalism. So much of th book is so devastatingly informative and is written with such lucid feminist wit, that I kept waiting as I read for the basic prescription against lesbianism to be examined. It never was This can hardly be for lack of information. Jonathan K American History tells us that as early as 1656 the New Haven Colony prescribed the death penalty for lesbians. Katz provides many suggestive and informative documents on the "treatment"(or torture)of lesbians by the medical profession in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries Recent work by the historian Nancy Sahli documents the crackdown on intense female friendships among college women at the turn of the present century. b The ironic title, For Her Own Good, might have referred first and foremost to the economic imperative to heterosexuality and marriage and to the sanctions imposed against single women and widows-both of whom have been and still are viewed as deviant. Yet this often enlightening Marxist-feminist overview of male prescriptions for female sanity and health, the economics of prescriptive heterosex uality go unexamined. 7 Of the three psychoanalytically based books, one, Jean Baker Mil ler's Toward a New Psychology of women, is written as if lesbians simply do not exist, even as marginal beings. Given Miller's title I find this astonish ing. However, the favorable reviews the book has received in feminist journals, including Signs and Spokeswoman, suggest that Miller's heterocentric assumptions are widely shared. In The Mermaid and the Minotaur: Sexual Arrangements and the Human Malaise, Dorothy Din gerstein makes an impassioned argument for the sharing of parenting between women and men and for an end to what she perceives as the male/female symbiosis of "gender arrangements, "which she feels are leading the species further and further into violence and self-extinction Apart from other problems that I have with this book(including her silence on the institutional and random terrorism men have practiced on women-and children-throughout history, amply documented by 5. Jonathan Katz, Gay American History(New York: Thomas Y, Crowell Co, 1976) 6. Nancy Sahli, ""Smashing: Womens Relationships before the Fall, " Chrysalis: A Mag- zine of women's Culture 8(1979): 17-27. A version of the article was presented at the Third Berkshire Conference on the History of Women, June 11, 1976 7. This is a book which I have publicly endorsed. I would still do so, though with the above caveat. It is only since beginning to write this article that I fully ap enormous is the unasked question in Ehrenreich and English's book

Compulsory Heterosexuality women to embody and preserve the sacredness of the home-the "scien￾tific" romanticization of the home itself). None of the "experts"' advice has been either particularly scientific or women-oriented; it has reflected male needs, male fantasies about women, and male interest in control￾ling women-particularly in the realms of sexuality and motherhood￾fused with the requirements of industrial capitalism. So much of this book is so devastatingly informative and is written with such lucid feminist wit, that I kept waiting as I read for the basic prescription against lesbianism to be examined. It never was. This can hardly be for lack of information. Jonathan Katz's Gay American History5 tells us that as early as 1656 the New Haven Colony prescribed the death penalty for lesbians. Katz provides many suggestive and informative documents on the "treatment" (or torture) of lesbians by the medical profession in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries. Recent work by the historian Nancy Sahli documents the crackdown on intense female friendships among college women at the turn of the present century.6 The ironic title, For Her Own Good, might have referred first and foremost to the economic imperative to heterosexuality and marriage and to the sanctions imposed against single women and widows-both of whom have been and still are viewed as deviant. Yet, in this often enlightening Marxist-feminist overview of male prescriptions for female sanity and health, the economics of prescriptive heterosex￾uality go unexamined.7 Of the three psychoanalytically based books, one, Jean Baker Mil￾ler's Toward a New Psychology of Women, is written as if lesbians simply do not exist, even as marginal beings. Given Miller's title I find this astonish￾ing. However, the favorable reviews the book has received in feminist journals, including Signs and Spokeswoman, suggest that Miller's heterocentric assumptions are widely shared. In The Mermaid and the Minotaur: Sexual Arrangements and the Human Malaise, Dorothy Din￾nerstein makes an impassioned argument for the sharing of parenting between women and men and for an end to what she perceives as the male/female symbiosis of "gender arrangements," which she feels are leading the species further and further into violence and self-extinction. Apart from other problems that I have with this book (including her silence on the institutional and random terrorism men have practiced on women-and children-throughout history, amply documented by 5. Jonathan Katz, Gay American History (New York: Thomas Y. Crowell Co., 1976). 6. Nancy Sahli, "Smashing: Women's Relationships before the Fall," Chrysalis: A Mag￾azine of Women's Culture 8 (1979): 17-27. A version of the article was presented at the Third Berkshire Conference on the History of Women, June 11, 1976. 7. This is a book which I have publicly endorsed. I would still do so, though with the above caveat. It is only since beginning to write this article that I fully appreciated how enormous is the unasked question in Ehrenreich and English's book. 634 Rich

Summer 1980 635 Barry, Daly, Griffin, Russell and van de ven, and Brownmiller, and her obsession with psychology to the neglect of economic and other material realities that help to create psychological reality ), I find utterly ahistorical Dinnerstein's view of the relations between women and men as"a collab- oration to keep history mad. " She means by this, to perpetuate social relations which are hostile, exploitive, and destructive to life itself. She sees women and men as equal partners in the making of"sexual ar- rangements, seemingly unaware of the repeated struggles of women to resist oppression(our own and that of others)and to change our condi tion. She ignores, specifically, the history of women who-as witches femmes seules, marriage resisters, spinsters, autonomous widows, and/or lesbians--have managed on varying levels not to collaborate. It is this tory, precisely, from which feminists have so much to lea arn a which there is overall such blanketing silence. Dinnerstein acknowledges at the end of her book that"female separatism, " though"on a large scale and in the long run wildly impractical, "has something to teach us: "Sepa rate, women could in principle set out to learn from scratch undeflected by the opportunities to evade this task that mens presence has so far offered--what intact self-creative humanness is. 9 Phrases like intact self-creative humanness"obscure the question of what the many forms of female separatism have actually been addressing. The fact is that women in every culture and throughout history have undertaken the task of independent, nonheterosexual, woman-connected existence to the extent made possible by their context, often in the belief that they were the"only ones"ever to have done so. They have undertaken it even though few women have been in an economic position to resist marriage altogether; and even though attacks against unmarried women have ranged from aspersion and mockery to deliberate gynocide, including the burning and torturing of millions of widows and spinsters during the witch persecutions of the fifteenth, sixteenth, and seventeenth centurie in Europe, and the practice of suttee on widows in India. 10 Nancy Chodorow does come close to the edge of an acknowled ment of lesbian existence. Like Dinnerstein, Chodorow believes that the fact that women, and women only, are responsible for child care in the exual division of labor has led to an entire social organization of gender inequality,and that men as well as women must become primary carers for children if that inequality is to change. In the process of examining from a psychoanalytic perspective, how mothering- by-women affects the psychological development of girl and boy children, she offers docu mentation that men are "emotionally secondary"in women s lives; that 8. Susan Brownmiller, Against Our Will: Men, Women and Rape(New York: Simon Schuster, 1975 10.Daly,pP.18485;11433

Summer 1980 635 Barry, Daly, Griffin, Russell and van de Ven, and Brownmiller,8 and her obsession with psychology to the neglect of economic and other material realities that help to create psychological reality), I find utterly ahistorical Dinnerstein's view of the relations between women and men as "a collab￾oration to keep history mad." She means by this, to perpetuate social relations which are hostile, exploitive, and destructive to life itself. She sees women and men as equal partners in the making of "sexual ar￾rangements," seemingly unaware of the repeated struggles of women to resist oppression (our own and that of others) and to change our condi￾tion. She ignores, specifically, the history of women who-as witches, femmes seules, marriage resisters, spinsters, autonomous widows, and/or lesbians-have managed on varying levels not to collaborate. It is this history, precisely, from which feminists have so much to learn and on which there is overall such blanketing silence. Dinnerstein acknowledges at the end of her book that "female separatism," though "on a large scale and in the long run wildly impractical," has something to teach us: "Sepa￾rate, women could in principle set out to learn from scratch￾undeflected by the opportunities to evade this task that men's presence has so far offered-what intact self-creative humanness is."9 Phrases like "intact self-creative humanness" obscure the question of what the many forms of female separatism have actually been addressing. The fact is that women in every culture and throughout history have undertaken the task of independent, nonheterosexual, woman-connected existence, to the extent made possible by their context, often in the belief that they were the "only ones" ever to have done so. They have undertaken it even though few women have been in an economic position to resist marriage altogether; and even though attacks against unmarried women have ranged from aspersion and mockery to deliberate gynocide, including the burning and torturing of millions of widows and spinsters during the witch persecutions of the fifteenth, sixteenth, and seventeenth centuries in Europe, and the practice of suttee on widows in India.10 Nancy Chodorow does come close to the edge of an acknowledg￾ment of lesbian existence. Like Dinnerstein, Chodorow believes that the fact that women, and women only, are responsible for child care in the sexual division of labor has led to an entire social organization of gender inequality, and that men as well as women must become primary carers for children if that inequality is to change. In the process of examining, from a psychoanalytic perspective, how mothering-by-women affects the psychological development of girl and boy children, she offers docu￾mentation that men are "emotionally secondary" in women's lives; that 8. Susan Brownmiller, Against Our Will: Men, Women and Rape (New York: Simon & Schuster, 1975). 9. Dinnerstein, p. 272. 10. Daly, pp. 184-85; 114-33. Signs

636 Rich Compulsory Heterosexuality women have a richer, ongoing inner world to fall back on.. men m\ not become as emotionally important to women as women do to men This would carry into the late twentieth century Smith-Rosenberg's findings about eighteenth-and nineteenth-century women's emotional focus on women. Emotionally important "can of course refer to anger as well as to love or to that intense mixture of the two often found in women's relationships with women: one aspe of what i hay call the"double-life of women"(see below ) Chodorow concludes that because women have women as mothers, "The mother remains a pr mary internal object [sic] to the girl, so that heterosexual relationship are on the model of a nonexclusive, second relationship for her, whereas for the boy they recreate an exclusive, primary relationship. "According to Chodorow, women"have learned to deny the limitations of masculine lovers for both psychological and practical reasons. 2 But the practical reasons (like witch burnings, male ol of law eology, and science, or economic nonviability within the sexual division of labor) are glossed over. Chodorow's account barely glances at the constraints and sanctions which, historically, have enforced or insured the coupling of women with men and obstructed or penalized our cou pling or allying in independent groups with other women. She dismisses lesbian existence with the comment that"lesbian relationships do tend to re-create mother-daughter emotions and connections, but most women are heterosexual"(implied: more mature, having developed beyond the mother-daughter connection). She then adds: "This heterosexual pref erence and taboos on homosexuality, in addition to objective economic dependence on men, make the option of primary sexual bonds with other women unlikely-though more prevalent in recent years. 13 The significance of that qualification seems irresistible--but Chodorow does not explore it further. Is she saying that lesbian existence has become more visible in recent years(in certain groups? ) that economic and other pressures have changed(under capitalism, socialism, or both:? ) and that consequently more women are rejecting the heterosexual"choice"? She argues that women want children because their heterosexual re lationships lack richness and intensity, that in having a child a womaN seeks to re-create her own intense relationship with her mother. It seems o be that on the basis of her own findings, Chodorow leads us implicitly o conclude that heterosexuality is not a " preference"for women; that for one thing, it fragments the erotic from the emotional in a way that women find impoverishing and painful. Yet her book participates in mandating it. Neglecting the covert socializations and the overt forces which have channelled women into marriage and heterosexual romance I 1. Chodorow, pp, 197-98 2.Ibid,pp.198-99 13.Ibid.,p.200

Compulsory Heterosexuality "women have a richer, ongoing inner world to fall back on.... men do not become as emotionally important to women as women do to men."'' This would carry into the late twentieth century Smith-Rosenberg's findings about eighteenth- and nineteenth-century women's emotional focus on women. "Emotionally important" can of course refer to anger as well as to love, or to that intense mixture of the two often found in women's relationships with women: one aspect of what I have come to call the "double-life of women" (see below). Chodorow concludes that because women have women as mothers, "The mother remains a pri￾mary internal object [sic] to the girl, so that heterosexual relationships are on the model of a nonexclusive, second relationship for her, whereas for the boy they recreate an exclusive, primary relationship." According to Chodorow, women "have learned to deny the limitations of masculine lovers for both psychological and practical reasons."'2 But the practical reasons (like witch burnings, male control of law, theology, and science, or economic nonviability within the sexual division of labor) are glossed over. Chodorow's account barely glances at the constraints and sanctions which, historically, have enforced or insured the coupling of women with men and obstructed or penalized our cou￾pling or allying in independent groups with other women. She dismisses lesbian existence with the comment that "lesbian relationships do tend to re-create mother-daughter emotions and connections, but most women are heterosexual" (implied: more mature, having developed beyond the mother-daughter connection). She then adds: "This heterosexual pref￾erence and taboos on homosexuality, in addition to objective economic dependence on men, make the option of primary sexual bonds with other women unlikely-though more prevalent in recent years."'3 The significance of that qualification seems irresistible-but Chodorow does not explore it further. Is she saying that lesbian existence has become more visible in recent years (in certain groups?), that economic and other pressures have changed (under capitalism, socialism, or both?), and that consequently more women are rejecting the heterosexual "choice"? She argues that women want children because their heterosexual re￾lationships lack richness and intensity, that in having a child a woman seeks to re-create her own intense relationship with her mother. It seems to be that on the basis of her own findings, Chodorow leads us implicitly to conclude that heterosexuality is not a "preference" for women; that, for one thing, it fragments the erotic from the emotional in a way that women find impoverishing and painful. Yet her book participates in mandating it. Neglecting the covert socializations and the overt forces which have channelled women into marriage and heterosexual romance, 11. Chodorow, pp. 197-98. 12. Ibid., pp. 198-99. 13. Ibid., p. 200. 636 Rich

Summer 1980 637 pressures ranging from the selling of daughters to postindustrial eco nomics to the silences of literature to the images of the television screen she, like Dinnerstein, is stuck with trying to reform a man-made stitution--compulsory heterosexuality-as if, despite profound emo tional impulses and complementarities drawing women toward women. there is a mystical/biological heterosexual inclination, a"preference"or "choice"which draws women toward men Moreover, it is understood that this"preference"does not need to be explained, unless through the tortuous theory of the female Oedipus omplex or the necessity for species reproduction. It is lesbian sexuality which(usually, and, incorrectly, "included"under male homosexuality seen as requiring explanation. This assumption of female heterosex- uality seems to me in itself remarkable: it is an enormous assumption to have glided so silently into the foundations of our thought The extension of this assumption is the frequently heard assertion that in a world of genuine equality, where men were nonoppressive and nurturing, everyone would be bisexual. Such a notion blurs and sen timentalizes the actualities within which women have experienced sexu ality; it is the old liberal leap across the tasks and struggles of here and now, the continuing process of sexual definition which will generate its own possibilities and choices. (It also assumes that women who have chosen women have done so simply because men are oppressive and emotionally unavailable: which still fails to account for women who con tinue to pursue relationships with oppressive and/or emotionally un- satisfying men. ) I am suggesting that heterosexuality, like motherhood, needs to be recognized and studied as a political institution-even,or especially, by those individuals who feel they are, in their personal e perience, the precursors of a new social relation between the sexes If women are the earliest sources of emotional caring and physical nurture for both female and male children, it would seem logical, from a feminist perspective at least, to pose the following questions: whether the search for love and tenderness in both sexes does not originally lead toward women; why in fact women would ever redirect that search; why species-survival, the means of impregnation, and emotionalerotic re- lationships should ever have become so rigidly identified with each other; and why such violent strictures should be found necessary to enforce women's total emotional, erotic loyalty and subservience to men. I doubt that enough feminist scholars and theorists have taken the pains to acknowledge the societal forces which wrench women's emo- from themselves and oth

Summer 1980 637 pressures ranging from the selling of daughters to postindustrial eco￾nomics to the silences of literature to the images of the television screen, she, like Dinnerstein, is stuck with trying to reform a man-made institution-compulsory heterosexuality-as if, despite profound emo￾tional impulses and complementarities drawing women toward women, there is a mystical/biological heterosexual inclination, a "preference" or "choice" which draws women toward men. Moreover, it is understood that this "preference" does not need to be explained, unless through the tortuous theory of the female Oedipus complex or the necessity for species reproduction. It is lesbian sexuality which (usually, and, incorrectly, "included" under male homosexuality) is seen as requiring explanation. This assumption of female heterosex￾uality seems to me in itself remarkable: it is an enormous assumption to have glided so silently into the foundations of our thought. The extension of this assumption is the frequently heard assertion that in a world of genuine equality, where men were nonoppressive and nurturing, everyone would be bisexual. Such a notion blurs and sen￾timentalizes the actualities within which women have experienced sexu￾ality; it is the old liberal leap across the tasks and struggles of here and now, the continuing process of sexual definition which will generate its own possibilities and choices. (It also assumes that women who have chosen women have done so simply because men are oppressive and emotionally unavailable: which still fails to account for women who con￾tinue to pursue relationships with oppressive and/or emotionally un￾satisfying men.) I am suggesting that heterosexuality, like motherhood, needs to be recognized and studied as a political institution-even, or especially, by those individuals who feel they are, in their personal ex￾perience, the precursors of a new social relation between the sexes. II If women are the earliest sources of emotional caring and physical nurture for both female and male children, it would seem logical, from a feminist perspective at least, to pose the following questions: whether the search for love and tenderness in both sexes does not originally lead toward women; why in fact women would ever redirect that search; why species-survival, the means of impregnation, and emotional/erotic re￾lationships should ever have become so rigidly identified with each other; and why such violent strictures should be found necessary to enforce women's total emotional, erotic loyalty and subservience to men. I doubt that enough feminist scholars and theorists have taken the pains to acknowledge the societal forces which wrench women's emo￾tional and erotic energies away from themselves and other women and Signs

638 Rich Compulsory Heter from woman-identified values. These forces, as I shall try to show, range rom literal physical enslavement to the disguising and distorting of possible options I do not, myself, assume that mothering-by-women is a"sufficient cause " of lesbian existence. But the issue of mothering-by-women ha been much in the air of late, usually accompa anied by the view that increased parenting by men would minimize antagonism between the exes and equalize the sexual imbalance of power of males over females These discussions are carried on without reference to compulsory het- erosexuality as a phenomenon let alone as an ideology. I do not wish to psychologize here, but rather to identify sources of male power. I believe large numbers of men could, in fact, undertake child care on a large ale without radically altering the balance of male power in a male In her essay"The Origin of the Family, "Kathleen Gough lists eight characteristics of male power in archaic and contemporary societies which I would like to use as a framework: men's ability to deny wo exuality or to force it upon them; to command or exploit their labor control their produce; to control or rob them of their children;to confine them physically and prevent their movement; to use them as objects in male transactions; to cramp their creativeness; or to withhold from them large areas of the society's knowledge and cultural attain ments. 4( Gough does not perceive these power-characteristics as specifically enforcing heterosexuality: only as producing sexual in equality ) Below, Goughs words appear in italics; the elaboration of each of her categories, in brackets, is my own Characteristics of male power include the power of men 1. to deny women [our own] sexuality [by means of clitoridectomy and infibulation; chastity belts; punishment, including death, for female adultery; punishment, including death, for lesbian sexuality: psychoanalytic denial of he clitoris; strictures against masturbation; denial of maternal nd postmenopausal sensuality; unnecessary hysterectomy; pseudolesbian images in media and literature; closing of archives and des of documents relating to lesbian existence 2. or to force it [male sexuality] upon them [by means of rape(including marital rape) and wife beating father-daughter, brother-sister incest; the socialization of women to feel that male sexual"amounts to a right; 1s idealization 14. Kathleen Gough, The Origin of the Family, "in Toward an Anthropology of women, Rayna[ Rapp] Reiter(New York: Monthly Review Press, 1975), Pp 69-70 ry,PP.216-19

Compulsory Heterosexuality from woman-identified values. These forces, as I shall try to show, range from literal physical enslavement to the disguising and distorting of possible options. I do not, myself, assume that mothering-by-women is a "sufficient cause" of lesbian existence. But the issue of mothering-by-women has been much in the air of late, usually accompanied by the view that increased parenting by men would mninimize antagonism between the sexes and equalize the sexual imbalance of power of males over females. These discussions are carried on without reference to compulsory het￾erosexuality as a phenomenon let alone as an ideology. I do not wish to psychologize here, but rather to identify sources of male power. I believe large numbers of men could, in fact, undertake child care on a large scale without radically altering the balance of male power in a male￾identified society. In her essay "The Origin of the Family," Kathleen Gough lists eight characteristics of male power in archaic and contemporary societies which I would like to use as a framework: "men's ability to deny women sexuality or to force it upon them; to command or exploit their labor to control their produce; to control or rob them of their children; to confine them physically and prevent their movement; to use them as objects in male transactions; to cramp their creativeness; or to withhold from them large areas of the society's knowledge and cultural attain￾ments."14 (Gough does not perceive these power-characteristics as specifically enforcing heterosexuality; only as producing sexual in￾equality.) Below, Gough's words appear in italics; the elaboration of each of her categories, in brackets, is my own. Characteristics of male power include: the power of men 1. to deny women [our own] sexuality [by means of clitoridectomy and infibulation; chastity belts; punishment, including death, for female adultery; punishment, including death, for lesbian sexuality; psychoanalytic denial of the clitoris; strictures against masturbation; denial of maternal and postmenopausal sensuality; unnecessary hysterectomy; pseudolesbian images in media and literature; closing of archives and destruction of documents relating to lesbian existence]; 2. or to force it [male sexuality] upon them [by means of rape (including marital rape) and wife beating; father-daughter, brother-sister incest; the socialization of women to feel that male sexual "drive" amounts to a right;15 idealization 14. Kathleen Gough, "The Origin of the Family," in Toward an Anthropology of Women, ed. Rayna [Rapp] Reiter (New York: Monthly Review Press, 1975), pp. 69-70. 15. Barry, pp. 216-19. 638 Rich

Summer 1980 639 of heterosexual romance in art, literature, media, advertising etc;child marriage; arranged marriage; prostitution; the harem psychoanalytic doctrines of frigidity and vaginal orgasm; por onding violence and humiliation(a subliminal message being that sadistic heterosexuality is more "normal"than sensuality between wom en)]; 3. to command or exploit their labor to control their produce [by means of the institutions of marriage and motherhood as unpaid production; the horizontal segregation of women in paid employment; the decoy of the upwardly mobile token woman male control of abortion, contraception, and childbirth; enforced sterilization;pimping; female infanticide, which robs mothers of daughters and contributes to generalized devaluation of wom- 4. to control or rob them of their children [by means of father-right and"legal kidnapping", 16 enforced sterilization; systematized infanticide of children from lesbian mothers by the courts; the malpractice of male obstetric of the mother as“ token rturer"?in genital mutilation or in binding the daughters feet(or mind)to fit her for marriage] 5. to confine them physically and prevent their movement [by means of rape as terrorism, keeping women off the streets purdah; foot-binding; atrophying of womens athletic capabilities; haute couture, feminine"dress codes; the veil; sex ual harassment on the streets; horizontal segregation of women ns for“ful-ti 6. to use them as objects in male transactions [use of women as"gifts"; bride-price; pimping; arranged mar- riage: use of women as entertainers to facilitate male deals, e. g wife-hostess, cocktail waitress required to dress for male sexual titillation, call girls, bunnies, geisha, hisaeng pre retaries 7. to cramp their creativeness [witch persecutions as campaigns against midwives and female healers and women: 8 definition og of male pursuits as more valuable than female within any culture, so that cultural values become em- bodiment of male subjectivity; restriction of female self- fulfillment to marriage and motherhood; sexual exploitation of women by male artists and teachers; the social and economic 16. Anna Demeter, Legal Kidnapping(Boston: Beacon Press, 1977), Pp xx, 126-28 17.Daly,Pp.132,13941,16365 18. Barbara Ehrenreich and Deirdre English, witches, Midwives and Nurses: A History of women Healers(Old Westbury, N.Y.: Feminist Press, 1973); Andrea Dworkin, Woman Hat ing(New York: E P. Dutton, 1974), Pp. 1 18-54; Daly, pp. 178-22

Summer 1980 639 of heterosexual romance in art, literature, media, advertising, etc.; child marriage; arranged marriage; prostitution; the harem; psychoanalytic doctrines of frigidity and vaginal orgasm; por￾nographic depictions of women responding pleasurably to sexual violence and humiliation (a subliminal message being that sadistic heterosexuality is more "normal" than sensuality between wom￾en)]; 3. to command or exploit their labor to control their produce [by means of the institutions of marriage and motherhood as unpaid production; the horizontal segregation of women in paid employment; the decoy of the upwardly mobile token woman; male control of abortion, contraception, and childbirth; enforced sterilization; pimping; female infanticide, which robs mothers of daughters and contributes to generalized devaluation of wom￾en]; 4. to control or rob them of their children [by means of father-right and "legal kidnapping";16 enforced sterilization; systematized infanticide; seizure of children from lesbian mothers by the courts; the malpractice of male obstetrics; use of the mother as "token torturer"17 in genital mutilation or in binding the daughter's feet (or mind) to fit her for marriage]; 5. to confine them physically and prevent their movement [by means of rape as terrorism, keeping women off the streets; purdah; foot-binding; atrophying of women's athletic capabilities; haute couture, "feminine" dress codes; the veil; sex￾ual harassment on the streets; horizontal segregation of women in employment; prescriptions for "full-time" mothering; en￾forced economic dependence of wives]; 6. to use them as objects in male transactions [use of women as "gifts"; bride-price; pimping; arranged mar￾riage; use of women as entertainers to facilitate male deals, e.g., wife-hostess, cocktail waitress required to dress for male sexual titillation, call girls, "bunnies," geisha, kisaeng prostitutes, sec￾retaries]; 7. to cramp their creativeness [witch persecutions as campaigns against midwives and female healers and as pogrom against independent, "unassimilated" women;'8 definition of male pursuits as more valuable than female within any culture, so that cultural values become em￾bodiment of male subjectivity; restriction of female self￾fulfillment to marriage and motherhood; sexual exploitation of women by male artists and teachers; the social and economic 16. Anna Demeter, Legal Kidnapping (Boston: Beacon Press, 1977), pp. xx, 126-28. 17. Daly, pp. 132, 139-41, 163-65. 18. Barbara Ehrenreich and Deirdre English, Witches, Midwives and Nurses: A History of Women Healers (Old Westbury, N.Y.: Feminist Press, 1973); Andrea Dworkin, Woman Hat￾ing (New York: E. P. Dutton, 1974), pp. 118-54; Daly, pp. 178-222. Signs