Unit 1 Communication Problems In-Class Reading Speaking Different Languages 说不同的语言 1当火星人和金星人最初在一起时，也遇到了我们目前存在的许多人际关系问题。他们之所 以能够解决这些问题，是因为他们认识到了相互之间的差异。他们成功的秘诀之一就是良好 的沟通。 2具有讽刺意味的是，他们沟通的成功却是因为他们说着不同的语言。遇到问题时，他们会 去找翻译帮忙。他们每个人都清楚火星人和金星人语言不同，因此，一旦遇到冲突，他们并 不去评论是非或争斗。相反，他们会拿出他们的常用语词典来查阅，以便更充分地理解对方。 如果这样还不行的话，他们就会去找翻译帮忙。 3你知道，火星语和金星语用的词相同，但是词的用法不同，所表达的含义也就不同。两种 语言的措词尽管相似，但是内涵却不同，所侧重的情感也不一样，相互之间很容易误解。因 此，当交流出现问题时，他们认为这只不过是一个误解而已，是预料中的。只要得到些许帮 助，他们就必定能够彼此理解。他们体验到的是一种相互间的信任和包容，这是我们今天很 少能体验到的。 4即使在今天，我们依然需要翻译。男人和女人即便用词相同，他们所表达的含义也很少一 样。例如，当女人说：“我觉得你从不听我说话”时，她希望对方不要从字面上理解“从不” 这个词。使用“从不”这个词只不过是用来表达她此时此刻感到非常失望而己，不要把它当 作事实性信息去理解。 5为了充分表达她们的感受，女人们往往会把事实夸大一点以引起注意，并使用各种最高级、 隐喻以及笼统的概括。男人可能会错误地从字面上来理解这些用语。他们误解了女人想要表 达的意思，便常常以不赞同的态度来回应她们。下面列有十种容易被误解的抱怨，同时也列 出了男人如何回应，表示不赞同。容易被误解的十种抱怨女人这样说：男人这样回应： “我们从来不出去。”“不对啊，我们上周还出去过呢。” “所有人都无视我的存在。”“我敢肯定有人关注你。” “我太累了，我什么也干不了了。”“要是你不喜欢自己的工作，那就辞职吧。” “我想忘掉一切。”“我觉得没有什么可忘掉的。” “家里总是乱七八糟。”“并不总是这么乱的。” “再也没人听我说话了。”“我不正在听你说嘛。” “什么都不对劲儿。”“你是说这都是我的错？” “你不再爱我了。”“我当然爱你，要不我干吗还在这儿。” “我们老是匆匆忙忙。”“没有啊，周五我们就很轻松。” “我需要更多的浪漫。”“你是说我不够浪漫？” 6可以看出，习惯把语言用来传达事实和信息的男人们，从“字面”上去理解女人的话是多 么容易产生误解。同时可以看出，男人的回答又是怎样引起争吵的。含糊的、缺乏爱心的沟 通是男女之间的最大问题。女人们在交往中的第一大抱怨就是“我觉得没人听我说话。” 7即使这种抱怨也会被误解。 8男人从字面上去理解“我觉得没人听我说话”，这使他对该抱怨不当一回事。他认为只要 能重复出她所说的话就表明他在听她说话了。对于女人所说的“我觉得没人听我说话”的正 确理解是：“我觉得好像你没有完全理解我真正想说的话，或者你不关心我的感受。对于我
1 Unit 1 Communication Problems In-Class Reading Speaking Different Languages 说不同的语言 1 当火星人和金星人最初在一起时，也遇到了我们目前存在的许多人际关系问题。他们之所 以能够解决这些问题，是因为他们认识到了相互之间的差异。他们成功的秘诀之一就是良好 的沟通。 2 具有讽刺意味的是，他们沟通的成功却是因为他们说着不同的语言。遇到问题时，他们会 去找翻译帮忙。他们每个人都清楚火星人和金星人语言不同，因此，一旦遇到冲突，他们并 不去评论是非或争斗。相反，他们会拿出他们的常用语词典来查阅，以便更充分地理解对方。 如果这样还不行的话，他们就会去找翻译帮忙。 3 你知道，火星语和金星语用的词相同，但是词的用法不同，所表达的含义也就不同。两种 语言的措词尽管相似，但是内涵却不同，所侧重的情感也不一样，相互之间很容易误解。因 此，当交流出现问题时，他们认为这只不过是一个误解而已，是预料中的。只要得到些许帮 助，他们就必定能够彼此理解。他们体验到的是一种相互间的信任和包容，这是我们今天很 少能体验到的。 4 即使在今天，我们依然需要翻译。男人和女人即便用词相同，他们所表达的含义也很少一 样。例如，当女人说：“我觉得你从不听我说话”时，她希望对方不要从字面上理解“从不” 这个词。使用“从不”这个词只不过是用来表达她此时此刻感到非常失望而已，不要把它当 作事实性信息去理解。 5 为了充分表达她们的感受，女人们往往会把事实夸大一点以引起注意，并使用各种最高级、 隐喻以及笼统的概括。男人可能会错误地从字面上来理解这些用语。他们误解了女人想要表 达的意思，便常常以不赞同的态度来回应她们。下面列有十种容易被误解的抱怨，同时也列 出了男人如何回应，表示不赞同。容易被误解的十种抱怨女人这样说： 男人这样回应： “我们从来不出去。” “ 不对啊，我们上周还出去过呢。” “所有人都无视我的存在。” “ 我敢肯定有人关注你。” “我太累了，我什么也干不了了。” “ 要是你不喜欢自己的工作，那就辞职吧。” “我想忘掉一切。” “ 我觉得没有什么可忘掉的。” “家里总是乱七八糟。” “ 并不总是这么乱的。” “再也没人听我说话了。” “ 我不正在听你说嘛。” “什么都不对劲儿。” “ 你是说这都是我的错？” “你不再爱我了。” “ 我当然爱你，要不我干吗还在这儿。” “我们老是匆匆忙忙。” “ 没有啊，周五我们就很轻松。” “我需要更多的浪漫。” “ 你是说我不够浪漫？” 6 可以看出，习惯把语言用来传达事实和信息的男人们，从“字面”上去理解女人的话是多 么容易产生误解。同时可以看出，男人的回答又是怎样引起争吵的。含糊的、缺乏爱心的沟 通是男女之间的最大问题。女人们在交往中的第一大抱怨就是“我觉得没人听我说话。” 7 即使这种抱怨也会被误解。 8 男人从字面上去理解“我觉得没人听我说话”，这使他对该抱怨不当一回事。他认为只要 能重复出她所说的话就表明他在听她说话了。对于女人所说的“我觉得没人听我说话”的正 确理解是：“我觉得好像你没有完全理解我真正想说的话，或者你不关心我的感受。对于我
想说的话，你能不能表示出你是感兴趣的呢？” 9如果男人能真正理解她的抱怨，那么他就会少些争辩，就能更积极地做出回应。当男人和 女人到了快要争吵的地步时，他们往往是误解了对方的意思。这时候，重新思考和解释自己 所听到的话是很重要的。 After-Class Reading 误会 1他头发凌乱，衣衫肮脏，口袋里仅有35美分。在马里兰州的巴尔的摩，他跳上一辆巴士， 直奔厕所而去。他以为躲进厕所就能免费乘车去纽约了，但坐在巴士后面的一位女乘客发现 了他。女乘客拍了拍她前排乘客的肩膀，说道：“厕所里有个流浪汉，告诉司机。”该乘客又 拍了拍他前面的人说：“告诉司机，厕所里有个流浪汉。” 2人们一个接着一个地将这条信息传到了巴士的前面，不过在中途某个环节，意思走了样。 当传到司机那里时，己不是“厕所里有个流浪汉(bum)”,而是“厕所里有颗炸弹(bomb)”。 司机急忙把车开到高速公路边停下来，用无线电报了警。警察赶到后，要求乘客们下车并远 离现场。然后，他们关闭了高速公路。这样马上就造成了长达15英里的交通堵塞。在一条 警犬的帮助下，警察将汽车搜查了两个小时。当然，他们没有找到炸弹。 3同样，两个发音相似的英语单词也给一位想从洛杉矶飞往加利福尼亚奥克兰市(Oakland) 的乘客带来了麻烦。他的问题始于洛杉矶机场。他以为听到自己航班的登机广播了，于是走 向登机门，出示了机票，登上了飞机。起飞20分钟后，这位先生开始担心了。奥克兰位于 洛杉矶的北面，可飞机似乎在向西飞行，他朝舷窗外一看，看到的却是一片汪洋大海。“这 趟航班是飞往奥克兰(Oakland)的吗？”他向乘务员询问。乘务员倒吸了一口凉气，答道：“不， 我们正飞往奥克兰(Auckland),新西兰的奥克兰(Auckland)。” 4由于英语中许多词发音相近，误会对讲英语的人来说已是司空见惯了，但这种误会并不是 每次都导致高速公路关闭或旅客错飞到别的大陆这样的后果。大多数误会都没这么严重。每 天，讲英语的人之间都会问诸如“你是说70还是17？”，“你是说能来还是不能来？”之 类的问题。对把英语作为第二语言的人来说，近音词特别容易混淆。 5一天早晨，当一位定居美国的朝鲜妇女到办公室时，她的老板问她：“你有没有收到过一 只盘子？”“没有…”她一边回答，一边纳闷老板究竞是什么意思。她是在办公室工作的， 老板为什么会问起盘子的事？整整一天，她始终琢磨不透这个奇怪的问题，但她又不好意思 去问老板。下午五点，当她正准备下班回家时，老板对她说：“明天请准时上班，今天早上 你迟到了15分钟”。她回答说：“对不起，我的车发动不起来，再则，…”，她突然停住， 笑了起来。这会儿她明白了，老板不是问她“是否收到过一只盘子”，而是问她“是否起晚 了”。 6不只是英语有近音词，其他语言中也有会引起误会的词，特别是对外国人来说。 7奥克兰(Auckland)听成了奥克兰(Oakland)。“起晚了(up late)”变成了“一只盘子(a plate)”。 当近音词造成误会时，也许最好的做法是一笑了之并从中吸取教训。当然有时候很难做到一 笑了之。那位要去加利福尼亚的奥克兰却去了新西兰奥克兰的旅客不会有笑的雅兴。然而， 那样一场误会最终结果也不错，航空公司为他免费提供了在新西兰的食宿和返回加利福尼亚 的机票。“不错”，这位客人后来说道，“我一直想看看新西兰。” 2
2 想说的话，你能不能表示出你是感兴趣的呢？” 9 如果男人能真正理解她的抱怨，那么他就会少些争辩，就能更积极地做出回应。当男人和 女人到了快要争吵的地步时，他们往往是误解了对方的意思。这时候，重新思考和解释自己 所听到的话是很重要的。 After-Class Reading 误 会 1 他头发凌乱，衣衫肮脏，口袋里仅有 35 美分。在马里兰州的巴尔的摩，他跳上一辆巴士， 直奔厕所而去。他以为躲进厕所就能免费乘车去纽约了，但坐在巴士后面的一位女乘客发现 了他。女乘客拍了拍她前排乘客的肩膀，说道：“厕所里有个流浪汉，告诉司机。”该乘客又 拍了拍他前面的人说：“告诉司机，厕所里有个流浪汉。” 2 人们一个接着一个地将这条信息传到了巴士的前面，不过在中途某个环节，意思走了样。 当传到司机那里时，已不是“厕所里有个流浪汉（bum）”，而是“厕所里有颗炸弹（bomb）”。 司机急忙把车开到高速公路边停下来，用无线电报了警。警察赶到后，要求乘客们下车并远 离现场。然后，他们关闭了高速公路。这样马上就造成了长达 15 英里的交通堵塞。在一条 警犬的帮助下，警察将汽车搜查了两个小时。当然，他们没有找到炸弹。 3 同样，两个发音相似的英语单词也给一位想从洛杉矶飞往加利福尼亚奥克兰市(Oakland) 的乘客带来了麻烦。他的问题始于洛杉矶机场。他以为听到自己航班的登机广播了，于是走 向登机门，出示了机票，登上了飞机。起飞 20 分钟后，这位先生开始担心了。奥克兰位于 洛杉矶的北面，可飞机似乎在向西飞行，他朝舷窗外一看，看到的却是一片汪洋大海。“这 趟航班是飞往奥克兰(Oakland)的吗？”他向乘务员询问。乘务员倒吸了一口凉气，答道：“不， 我们正飞往奥克兰(Auckland)，新西兰的奥克兰(Auckland)。” 4 由于英语中许多词发音相近，误会对讲英语的人来说已是司空见惯了，但这种误会并不是 每次都导致高速公路关闭或旅客错飞到别的大陆这样的后果。大多数误会都没这么严重。每 天，讲英语的人之间都会问诸如“你是说 70 还是 17 ？”，“你是说能来还是不能来？”之 类的问题。对把英语作为第二语言的人来说，近音词特别容易混淆。 5 一天早晨，当一位定居美国的朝鲜妇女到办公室时，她的老板问她：“你有没有收到过一 只盘子？”“没有……”她一边回答，一边纳闷老板究竟是什么意思。她是在办公室工作的， 老板为什么会问起盘子的事？整整一天，她始终琢磨不透这个奇怪的问题，但她又不好意思 去问老板。下午五点，当她正准备下班回家时，老板对她说：“明天请准时上班，今天早上 你迟到了 15 分钟”。她回答说：“对不起，我的车发动不起来，再则，……”，她突然停住， 笑了起来。这会儿她明白了，老板不是问她“是否收到过一只盘子”，而是问她“是否起晚 了”。 6 不只是英语有近音词，其他语言中也有会引起误会的词，特别是对外国人来说。 7 奥克兰(Auckland)听成了奥克兰(Oakland)。“起晚了(up late)”变成了“一只盘子(a plate)”。 当近音词造成误会时，也许最好的做法是一笑了之并从中吸取教训。当然有时候很难做到一 笑了之。那位要去加利福尼亚的奥克兰却去了新西兰奥克兰的旅客不会有笑的雅兴。然而， 那样一场误会最终结果也不错，航空公司为他免费提供了在新西兰的食宿和返回加利福尼亚 的机票。“不错”，这位客人后来说道，“我一直想看看新西兰
课内阅读练习答案 Part One Preparation 1.Saying Things Sincerely or Sarcastically STEP ONE 1 C(Sincerely)2 A(Sarcastically)3 D(Sincerely)4 B(Sincerely) STEPTWO Sample Picture 1 It is matched with Line C,because it can be seen from the picture that the man is splashing some dirty rainwater onto the lady's dress. Line C is sincere because the man in the picture is making an apology to the lady. W:Oh,My goodness!What have you done to my new dress? M:Ah,I'm awfully sorry.I didn't mean to make such a beautiful lady angry.I should have been more careful! W:Angry?No,I'm not angry.I can just put it in the washing machine when I get home. Picture2 It is matched with Line A,because the moon is in the sky and the man pointing at his watch tells us it is very late at night. Line A is sarcastic,for the man in the picture is obviously angry with the lady. W:I'm back,honey. M:Er.finally! W:You seem so worried.Why? M:Why should I be worried about you?It's already past midnight. W:Don't worry.I won't get lost so easily.I'm not an unsophisticated young girl. Picture3 It is matched with Line D,for the boy pushing the bike is just back from a ride. Line D is sincere,because from their dialog we can see they are good friends and the boy must have had the owner's permission to use the bike. Boy A:Here's your bike.It's so kind of you to loan me your new bike. Boy B:You're welcome.You can use it whenever you want.Did you find it easy to ride? Boy A:Not really.Maybe I need some more practice. Picture 4 It is matched with Line B,because it can be seen from the picture that the lady is addressing an office boy who has hurt his wrist. Line B is sincerely said,for the boy still comes to work even with an injured hand. W:You're late to work.You had a doctor's appointment,didn't you? M:I'm sorry for being late.But how did you know that? Communication Problems W:I guess it's the doctor who bandaged up your hand.Are you all right? M:Today's my unlucky day!I had my hand hurt and my cell phone broken in a traffic accident. Teaching tips 3
3 课内阅读练习答案 Part One Preparation 1. Saying Things Sincerely or Sarcastically STEP ONE 1 C (Sincerely) 2 A (Sarcastically) 3 D (Sincerely) 4 B (Sincerely) STEP TWO Sample Picture 1 It is matched with Line C, because it can be seen from the picture that the man is splashing some dirty rainwater onto the lady’s dress. Line C is sincere because the man in the picture is making an apology to the lady. W: Oh, My goodness! What have you done to my new dress? M: Ah, I’m awfully sorry. I didn’t mean to make such a beautiful lady angry. I should have been more careful! W: Angry? No, I’m not angry. I can just put it in the washing machine when I get home. Picture 2 It is matched with Line A, because the moon is in the sky and the man pointing at his watch tells us it is very late at night. Line A is sarcastic, for the man in the picture is obviously angry with the lady. W: I’m back, honey. M: Er, finally! W: You seem so worried. Why? M: Why should I be worried about you? It’s already past midnight. W: Don’t worry. I won’t get lost so easily. I’m not an unsophisticated young girl. Picture 3 It is matched with Line D, for the boy pushing the bike is just back from a ride. Line D is sincere, because from their dialog we can see they are good friends and the boy must have had the owner’s permission to use the bike. Boy A: Here’s your bike. It’s so kind of you to loan me your new bike. Boy B: You’re welcome. You can use it whenever you want. Did you find it easy to ride? Boy A: Not really. Maybe I need some more practice. Picture 4 It is matched with Line B, because it can be seen from the picture that the lady is addressing an office boy who has hurt his wrist. Line B is sincerely said, for the boy still comes to work even with an injured hand. W: You’re late to work. You had a doctor’s appointment, didn’t you? M: I’m sorry for being late. But how did you know that? Communication Problems W: I guess it’s the doctor who bandaged up your hand. Are you all right? M: Today’s my unlucky day! I had my hand hurt and my cell phone broken in a traffic accident. Teaching tips
In order to be sarcastic,Americans adjust their vocal tone by speaking flat,lengthening their vowel sounds and perhaps creating a facial expression. Tone of voice:When communicating,the way the words are spoken may be more important than what is actually being said.The tone of voice can indicate whether a speaker is sincere or sarcastic,casual or impassioned,serious or humorous,and confident or uncertain.For instance, sarcasm occurs when the speaker pitches a stressed syllable lower than the other words in the sentence.For example,the pitch of the word "great"in sentence"Great weather,huh?"changes depending on whether you're being sincere or sarcastic. Volume and speed of voice:A loud voice or speaking quickly may be a sign of excitability or urgency.Slow or soft speech may indicate a relaxed attitude or uncertainty.To put emphasis on what is being said,speakers may also effectively slow their speech or pause,and they may raise or lower their voices. Facial expressions:Smiles,frowns and other facial expressions can be used to express our feelings.For example,both eyebrows lifted can mean surprise or excitement,whereas a single lifted eyebrow may indicate sarcasm or disbelief. 2.English-Chinese Telephone Chains Here are a few messages for your reference.You can have your own messages as well. 1.John is 17 years old,a freshman majoring in business management. 2.Forty boys and 14 girls have entered the English Speaking Contest. 3.Professor Wang used to teach physical education at a university in Austria. 4.I can't stand him any longer because he tends to lose his temper easily. 5.I talked to an Italian girl in my class about her math homework on Thursday. Teaching tips Activity:English-Chinese Telephone Chains Duration:About 15 minutes Aim:Practice listening,pronunciation,and translation Introduction:This activity not only entails listening,pronunciation and translation skills,but also enables students to be aware of misunderstandings in daily communication,such as message delivering. Preparation:In this activity,the 8-10 students of each group should be seated in a line or circle for the message to pass from one to another without being heard by others in the group.And the message can be chosen either by the teacher (or made up by the first student in each group) Remember that the rest of the group should have no idea about the message in advance. Procedure:Make sure that students have a clear understanding of the goal and rules.The first student of each group will get an English message from the teacher,translate it into Chinese and whisper the Chinese version to the second student.The second student is supposed to translate it back into English and whisper it to the third student.This continues down the line until the message gets to the last student.Each student can only say "Can you please repeat that?"one time. When the message reaches the end of the chain,the student must speak out loud.In a big group you can send the message two ways and find out which team comes closest to the original message.Oftentimes the message will be completely different when it reaches the end.Try to find out where the chain broke! The point of this activity is not winning rather,it is to see if the last student can say the message correctly.The interesting thing about this activity is that usually the last student never says the
4 In order to be sarcastic, Americans adjust their vocal tone by speaking flat, lengthening their vowel sounds and perhaps creating a facial expression. • Tone of voice: When communicating, the way the words are spoken may be more important than what is actually being said. The tone of voice can indicate whether a speaker is sincere or sarcastic, casual or impassioned, serious or humorous, and confident or uncertain. For instance, sarcasm occurs when the speaker pitches a stressed syllable lower than the other words in the sentence. For example, the pitch of the word “great” in sentence “Great weather, huh?” changes depending on whether you’re being sincere or sarcastic. • Volume and speed of voice: A loud voice or speaking quickly may be a sign of excitability or urgency. Slow or soft speech may indicate a relaxed attitude or uncertainty. To put emphasis on what is being said, speakers may also effectively slow their speech or pause, and they may raise or lower their voices. • Facial expressions: Smiles, frowns and other facial expressions can be used to express our feelings. For example, both eyebrows lifted can mean surprise or excitement, whereas a single lifted eyebrow may indicate sarcasm or disbelief. 2. English-Chinese Telephone Chains Here are a few messages for your reference. You can have your own messages as well. 1. John is 17 years old, a freshman majoring in business management. 2. Forty boys and 14 girls have entered the English Speaking Contest. 3. Professor Wang used to teach physical education at a university in Austria. 4. I can’t stand him any longer because he tends to lose his temper easily. 5. I talked to an Italian girl in my class about her math homework on Thursday. Teaching tips Activity: English-Chinese Telephone Chains Duration: About 15 minutes Aim: Practice listening, pronunciation, and translation Introduction: This activity not only entails listening, pronunciation and translation skills, but also enables students to be aware of misunderstandings in daily communication, such as message delivering. Preparation: In this activity, the 8-10 students of each group should be seated in a line or circle for the message to pass from one to another without being heard by others in the group. And the message can be chosen either by the teacher (or made up by the first student in each group). Remember that the rest of the group should have no idea about the message in advance. Procedure: Make sure that students have a clear understanding of the goal and rules. The first student of each group will get an English message from the teacher, translate it into Chinese and whisper the Chinese version to the second student. The second student is supposed to translate it back into English and whisper it to the third student. This continues down the line until the message gets to the last student. Each student can only say “Can you please repeat that?” one time. When the message reaches the end of the chain, the student must speak out loud. In a big group you can send the message two ways and find out which team comes closest to the original message. Oftentimes the message will be completely different when it reaches the end. Try to find out where the chain broke! The point of this activity is not winning; rather, it is to see if the last student can say the message correctly. The interesting thing about this activity is that usually the last student never says the
message correctly.It is also fun to hear the message all scrambled up,which naturally leads the students into cases of misunderstanding in the After-Class Reading passage. Depending on students'proficiency in English,the difficulty of this activity can be adjusted.If the teacher aims to favor the demands of students with a relatively low level of English,it is advisable to make slight alterations as follows.The class will be divided into groups of 8-10 students. The first student of each group will be given a message by the teacher.The message should be whispered from one person to the next.The last person should repeat the message aloud.The group that gets the message through with the fewest changes wins. 3.Enjoying a Joke Sample In the joke,the problem is that the boy always took what the man said literally.In fact,when the man asked"Where does this road go?",he expected that the boy would tell him that the road went or led to a certain place.But instead,the boy didn't know what the man meant or he meant to tease the man and his answer seemed irrelevant.The same thing happened with the question"How far is it to the next town?".Therefore,the reader may think the boy is stupid.But surprisingly,the boy's last remark was very clever:"I know I don't know much,and I may be a fool,but at least I'm not lost."This made the man seem stupid. Part Two Reading-Centered Activities In-Class Reading Post-Reading Reading Comprehension 1.I different 2 problems3 communication 4 translator 5 trust 6 acceptance 7 exaggerate 8 superlatives 9 metaphors 10 generalizations 11 unsupportive 12 literally 13 rethink 14 translate 2.1F2T3F4T5T6F7T8T9T10T 3.Sample ·(At the dinner table) W:Dear,to be honest,how does the food taste? M:I want to say it's delicious to please you.But to be honest,it is a bit salty. W:I'm gaining weight.Dear,what can I do? M:Try to eat less fat.You should keep yourself slim like Mrs.Smith. W:I know Mrs.Smith is slimmer and prettier.Why didn't you marry her instead? (After dinner) W:Dear,we haven't gone shopping for years. M:Really?Last Sunday,we did and you bought a lot of things.I can't believe you forget things so quickly. .(A man and a woman dating in a park) W:I feel a little chilly. M:Do you? (The man takes off his coat and puts it on the woman.) W:We haven't been together for a long time
5 message correctly. It is also fun to hear the message all scrambled up, which naturally leads the students into cases of misunderstanding in the After-Class Reading passage. Depending on students’ proficiency in English, the difficulty of this activity can be adjusted. If the teacher aims to favor the demands of students with a relatively low level of English, it is advisable to make slight alterations as follows. The class will be divided into groups of 8-10 students. The first student of each group will be given a message by the teacher. The message should be whispered from one person to the next. The last person should repeat the message aloud. The group that gets the message through with the fewest changes wins. 3. Enjoying a Joke Sample In the joke, the problem is that the boy always took what the man said literally. In fact, when the man asked “Where does this road go?”, he expected that the boy would tell him that the road went or led to a certain place. But instead, the boy didn’t know what the man meant or he meant to tease the man and his answer seemed irrelevant. The same thing happened with the question “How far is it to the next town?”. Therefore, the reader may think the boy is stupid. But surprisingly, the boy’s last remark was very clever: “I know I don’t know much, and I may be a fool, but at least I’m not lost.” This made the man seem stupid. Part Two Reading-Centered Activities In-Class Reading Post-Reading Reading Comprehension 1. 1 different 2 problems 3 communication 4 translator 5 trust 6 acceptance 7 exaggerate 8 superlatives 9 metaphors 10 generalizations 11 unsupportive 12 literally 13 rethink 14 translate 2. 1 F 2 T 3 F 4 T 5 T 6 F 7 T 8 T 9 T 10 T 3. Sample • (At the dinner table) W: Dear, to be honest, how does the food taste? M: I want to say it’s delicious to please you. But to be honest, it is a bit salty. W: I’m gaining weight. Dear, what can I do? M: Try to eat less fat. You should keep yourself slim like Mrs. Smith. W: I know Mrs. Smith is slimmer and prettier. Why didn’t you marry her instead? (After dinner) W: Dear, we haven’t gone shopping for years. M: Really? Last Sunday, we did and you bought a lot of things. I can’t believe you forget things so quickly. • (A man and a woman dating in a park) W: I feel a little chilly. M: Do you? (The man takes off his coat and puts it on the woman.) W: We haven’t been together for a long time
M:But I remember we went to the movies together last Sunday. W:I feel lonely sometimes. M:But you have three roommates. W:You don't love me anymore. M:I surely do,and that's why I am here. W:We should think over our problems carefully. M:Oh,I didn't realize we had any big problems. (Without saying anything more,the woman throws the man's coat back to him and leaves.) Vocabulary and Grammar 1.1 mess 2 positively/optimistically 3 mislead 4 intended 5 tend 6 exaggerates 7 frustrating 8 misunderstood /misinterpreted 9 acceptance 10 quit 2.1E2F3A4J5H6D7G819B10C 3.1 conveyed /conveys 2 assistance 3 encounter 4 conflict 5 emphasis 6 reacted 7 means 8 assumed 9 emerged 10 ignore 4.1 out 2 on 3 with 4 of 5 In6 in 7 to 8 on 9 at 10 of Translation 1.I went to the dentist yesterday to have a bad/decayed tooth pulled out. 2.Salary varies significantly /greatly /tremendously,depending on the employees'educational backgrounds and work experience. 3.The use of information technology could lead to major progress for developing countries. 4.You are not approaching/dealing with/coping with/tackling the problem in the correct/ right manner. 5. Scientists believe that humans are on the verge of finding an effective way to cure cancer. 6. Divorce is not a matter you can afford to take lightly.Divorce cannot be taken lightly. Part Three Further Development 1.Grammar Review 1 achieving 2 going 3 to wait 4 going 5 heard 6 to explain 7 to lock 8 leaving 9 to get 10 to believe 11 knowing 12 to find;damaged 13 hearing 14 to understand 15 give 2.Vocabulary Review 1.A understanding B misunderstanding C understood 2.A admire B admiration C admirable 3.A determination B determined C determines D determining 4.Aemphasis B emphasize C emphases 5.A familiarity B unfamiliar C unfamiliarity D familiar 6.Aacceptances B accept C acceptable 7.A memorable B memories C memorize 8.A confuse B confusing C confusion D confused 6
6 M: But I remember we went to the movies together last Sunday. W: I feel lonely sometimes. M: But you have three roommates. W: You don’t love me anymore. M: I surely do, and that’s why I am here. W: We should think over our problems carefully. M: Oh, I didn’t realize we had any big problems. (Without saying anything more, the woman throws the man’s coat back to him and leaves.) Vocabulary and Grammar 1. 1 mess 2 positively / optimistically 3 mislead 4 intended 5 tend 6 exaggerates 7 frustrating 8 misunderstood / misinterpreted 9 acceptance 10 quit 2. 1 E 2 F 3 A 4 J 5 H 6 D 7 G 8 I 9 B 10 C 3. 1 conveyed / conveys 2 assistance 3 encounter 4 conflict 5 emphasis 6 reacted 7 means 8 assumed 9 emerged 10 ignore 4. 1 out 2 on 3 with 4 of 5 In 6 in 7 to 8 on 9 at 10 of Translation 1. I went to the dentist yesterday to have a bad / decayed tooth pulled out. 2. Salary varies significantly / greatly / tremendously, depending on the employees’ educational backgrounds and work experience. 3. The use of information technology could lead to major progress for developing countries. 4. You are not approaching / dealing with / coping with / tackling the problem in the correct / right manner. 5. Scientists believe that humans are on the verge of finding an effective way to cure cancer. 6. Divorce is not a matter you can afford to take lightly. / Divorce cannot be taken lightly. Part Three Further Development 1. Grammar Review 1 achieving 2 going 3 to wait 4 going 5 heard 6 to explain 7 to lock 8 leaving 9 to get 10 to believe 11 knowing 12 to find; damaged 13 hearing 14 to understand 15 give 2. Vocabulary Review 1. A understanding B misunderstanding C understood 2. A admire B admiration C admirable 3. A determination B determined C determines D determining 4.A emphasis B emphasize C emphases 5. A familiarity B unfamiliar C unfamiliarity D familiar 6.A acceptances B accept C acceptable 7. A memorable B memories C memorize 8. A confuse B confusing C confusion D confused
3.Clearing Up a Misunderstanding STEPTWO Sample The problem was caused by differences in communication between masculine and feminine cultures.John understood Laura according to the rules of the masculine culture.Women give a lot of responses to show their interest and involvement in a conversation because relationships and using communication to build them are very important to them.The masculine culture,on the other hand,focuses more on outcomes than processes.Thus,men tend to use feedback to show agreement and disagreement..When John heard Laura's“ums”,“uh huhs”",and"yeses'”,he thought that she was agreeing with him.However,according to the feminine culture,she was only showing interest and being responsive to him.She was not signaling agreement. STEP THREE Sample When I was seven years old,one of my right front teeth became so loose that I asked my grandmother to pull it out."Which tooth should be pulled out?",my grandmother asked me.I just said:"right front".As a result,she pulled out my left front tooth right away.Do you know why? Answer:Because "the left"on my side was"the right"on her side.I lost two front teeth,owing to such a minor misunderstanding in daily life.In fact,the mistake could have been avoided if I had pointed to my right front tooth. One day,our foreign teacher was invited to eat dumplings with us.He seemed to enjoy his first experience of eating Chinese dumplings very much.Then he asked me:"What's the filling?"I answered:"Delicious!"Puzzled,he asked again:"I mean 'What's the filling?'"In response,I tried to make the answer clearer with a complete sentence,"I'm feeling very well."What's the misunderstanding in my case? Answer:Misunderstanding occurs when the listener fails to recognize the correct pronunciation of the words.In this case,I failed to identify the short vowel /i/in"filling",thus confusing"filling" with“feeling'”. 3.How to Avoid Misunderstandings Sample Ask the other person to repeat what you have said,especially important facts and details such as where.when.who. Write clearly and exactly. If you are not sure about what the other person has said,do not hesitate to ask.Don't pretend to know or understand.Don't guess.Questions to avoid or clear up misunderstandings are welcome because nobody wants to be misunderstood. Do not make too many inferences.Sometimes trying to guess the implied meaning will cause trouble. Try to make out the intended meaning of what one has said,not just the literal meaning, especially when you are talking to a person of the opposite sex.Remember that men are usually factual while women may be more emotional. Pay attention to similar-sounding words or words in a conversation which are pronounced the same but spelled differently.When you say any word of the kind,make sure your listeners hear the word you actually said or meant.If you're a listener,try to make sure what you heard is really what the speaker had said. >
7 3. Clearing Up a Misunderstanding STEP TWO Sample The problem was caused by differences in communication between masculine and feminine cultures. John understood Laura according to the rules of the masculine culture. Women give a lot of responses to show their interest and involvement in a conversation because relationships and using communication to build them are very important to them. The masculine culture, on the other hand, focuses more on outcomes than processes. Thus, men tend to use feedback to show agreement and disagreement. When John heard Laura’s “ums”, “uh huhs”, and “yeses”, he thought that she was agreeing with him. However, according to the feminine culture, she was only showing interest and being responsive to him. She was not signaling agreement. STEP THREE Sample • When I was seven years old, one of my right front teeth became so loose that I asked my grandmother to pull it out. “Which tooth should be pulled out?”, my grandmother asked me. I just said: “right front”. As a result, she pulled out my left front tooth right away. Do you know why? Answer: Because “the left” on my side was “the right” on her side. I lost two front teeth, owing to such a minor misunderstanding in daily life. In fact, the mistake could have been avoided if I had pointed to my right front tooth. • One day, our foreign teacher was invited to eat dumplings with us. He seemed to enjoy his first experience of eating Chinese dumplings very much. Then he asked me: “What’s the filling?” I answered: “Delicious!” Puzzled, he asked again: “I mean ‘What’s the filling?’” In response, I tried to make the answer clearer with a complete sentence, “I’m feeling very well.” What’s the misunderstanding in my case? Answer: Misunderstanding occurs when the listener fails to recognize the correct pronunciation of the words. In this case, I failed to identify the short vowel /i/ in “filling”, thus confusing “filling” with “feeling”. 3. How to Avoid Misunderstandings Sample • Ask the other person to repeat what you have said, especially important facts and details such as where, when, who. • Write clearly and exactly. • If you are not sure about what the other person has said, do not hesitate to ask. Don’t pretend to know or understand. Don’t guess. Questions to avoid or clear up misunderstandings are welcome because nobody wants to be misunderstood. • Do not make too many inferences. Sometimes trying to guess the implied meaning will cause trouble. • Try to make out the intended meaning of what one has said, not just the literal meaning, especially when you are talking to a person of the opposite sex. Remember that men are usually factual while women may be more emotional. • Pay attention to similar-sounding words or words in a conversation which are pronounced the same but spelled differently. When you say any word of the kind, make sure your listeners hear the word you actually said or meant. If you’re a listener, try to make sure what you heard is really what the speaker had said
4.What Should They Say? STEPTWO Sample 1A Teacher:Good morning everybody.I have something serious to discuss with you today.Would you please tell me your purpose for attending school? Student A:To acquire knowledge. Student B:To prepare for the future. Teacher:Are there any different ideas? Student C:To be areal man. Teacher:Yes,it's the most essential part.That's why we expect our students to improve their behavior.You will be frustrated on your way to success if you don't know how to behave like a real man.Please keep this in mind. Students:Yes,sir. 2B Customer:Can I have some chips please? Waiter:Certainly.And would you like something to drink? Customer:Yes,some milk please. Waiter:Sorry.There's no milk now.What about Coca-Cola? Customer:Oh,no.Maybe a bottle of orange juice will be fine. Waiter:OK,Umm.Do you need something else? Customer:No,nothing else. Waiter:Well,please wait for a while and everything will be ready soon. 3A Customer:Can I give an order? Waiter:Yes,sir.Can I interest you in our special this evening?Our steak is particularly delicious Customer:OK,I would like to try it. Waiter:Do you want to order anything else,sir? Customer:I want to order a bottle of brandy and some strawberries. Waiter:Is that all.sir? Customer:Yes. Waiter:Thank you sir.Please wait for a moment.Your food will be ready in a few minutes. Part Four Translation and Writing 2.Translation Practice 1.Misunderstandings are very common in our daily lives.They will cause problems and unnecessary troubles,like ruining friendships and bringing misery. 2.There are a variety of ways to avoid misunderstandings. A Do not use words that may have double/ambiguous meanings; B Express ideas and pronounce words clearly; C Emphasize the main points; D Don't pretend to understand when you don't; E Ask for clarification when not clear about the meaning: F Be aware of the gender differences in communication. 6
8 4. What Should They Say? STEP TWO Sample 1 A Teacher: Good morning everybody. I have something serious to discuss with you today. Would you please tell me your purpose for attending school? Student A: To acquire knowledge. Student B: To prepare for the future. Teacher: Are there any different ideas? Student C: To be a real man. Teacher: Yes, it’s the most essential part. That’s why we expect our students to improve their behavior. You will be frustrated on your way to success if you don’t know how to behave like a real man. Please keep this in mind. Students: Yes, sir. 2 B Customer: Can I have some chips please? Waiter: Certainly. And would you like something to drink? Customer: Yes, some milk please. Waiter: Sorry. There’s no milk now. What about Coca-Cola? Customer: Oh, no. Maybe a bottle of orange juice will be fine. Waiter: OK, Umm. Do you need something else? Customer: No, nothing else. Waiter: Well, please wait for a while and everything will be ready soon. 3 A Customer: Can I give an order? Waiter: Yes, sir. Can I interest you in our special this evening? Our steak is particularly delicious. Customer: OK, I would like to try it. Waiter: Do you want to order anything else, sir? Customer: I want to order a bottle of brandy and some strawberries. Waiter: Is that all, sir? Customer: Yes. Waiter: Thank you sir. Please wait for a moment. Your food will be ready in a few minutes. Part Four Translation and Writing 2 . Translation Practice 1. Misunderstandings are very common in our daily lives. They will cause problems and unnecessary troubles, like ruining friendships and bringing misery. 2. There are a variety of ways to avoid misunderstandings. A Do not use words that may have double / ambiguous meanings; B Express ideas and pronounce words clearly; C Emphasize the main points; D Don’t pretend to understand when you don’t; E Ask for clarification when not clear about the meaning; F Be aware of the gender differences in communication
3.Many misunderstandings can be avoided if we are careful enough.Life without misunderstandings will be better and happier. 3.Writing Sample How to Avoid Misunderstandings Misunderstandings are very common in our daily lives.Even though not all misunderstandings are very serious,they still cause problems and unnecessary troubles.Sometimes,they can even ruin good relationships or friendships,which will undoubtedly bring misery.There are many approaches to avoiding misunderstandings. First,we should not use words that may have ambiguous meanings.We should express our ideas clearly and also pronounce words clearly,such as "seventeen"and "seventy",because similar sounding words may well generate misunderstandings.Second,as listeners,when we are not quite clear about what we have heard,we should not hesitate to ask for clarification.We shouldn't pretend to know or understand if we don't.Third,we should not always take it literally when we hear a statement.For example,if a woman says"You never clean the house"to her husband,he had better not argue that the day before yesterday he cleaned the house.Instead,he should take it as a signal that either she is tired or she is bored with housework. Of course,there are many other ways to avoid misunderstandings.If we can avoid misunderstandings,we can lead a better and happier life
9 3. Many misunderstandings can be avoided if we are careful enough. Life without misunderstandings will be better and happier. 3. Writing Sample How to Avoid Misunderstandings Misunderstandings are very common in our daily lives. Even though not all misunderstandings are very serious, they still cause problems and unnecessary troubles. Sometimes, they can even ruin good relationships or friendships, which will undoubtedly bring misery. There are many approaches to avoiding misunderstandings. First, we should not use words that may have ambiguous meanings. We should express our ideas clearly and also pronounce words clearly, such as “seventeen” and “seventy”, because similar sounding words may well generate misunderstandings. Second, as listeners, when we are not quite clear about what we have heard, we should not hesitate to ask for clarification. We shouldn’t pretend to know or understand if we don’t. Third, we should not always take it literally when we hear a statement. For example, if a woman says “You never clean the house” to her husband, he had better not argue that the day before yesterday he cleaned the house. Instead, he should take it as a signal that either she is tired or she is bored with housework. Of course, there are many other ways to avoid misunderstandings. If we can avoid misunderstandings, we can lead a better and happier life