上海充通大 SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY Dating culture,sexual practices 沈洋， 国际与公共事务学院 上海交通大学
Dating culture, sexual practices 沈洋, 国际与公共事务学院 上海交通大学
Literature Giddens(1992)The transformation of intimacy(亲密关系的变 革) Yan(2003)Private life under socialism:Love,intimacy,and family change in a Chinese village,1949-1999 性实践 Farrer et.al.(2010).Re-Embedding Sexual Meanings:A Qualitative Comparison of the Premarital Sexual Scripts of Chinese and Japanese Young Adults Parish,Laumann and Mojola(2007).Sexual Behavior in China:Trends and Comparisons 彭彧华等(2009)当代大学生性行为和性态度、性知识的特点及 关系 约炮 -Furman and Shaffer(2011);Mongeau et al.(2013) 上海充通大学 SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY
Literature • Giddens (1992) The transformation of intimacy (亲密关系的变 革) • Yan (2003) Private life under socialism: Love, intimacy, and family change in a Chinese village, 1949-1999 • 性实践 – Farrer et. al.(2010). Re-Embedding Sexual Meanings: A Qualitative Comparison of the Premarital Sexual Scripts of Chinese and Japanese Young Adults – Parish, Laumann and Mojola (2007). Sexual Behavior in China: Trends and Comparisons – 彭彧华等（2009）当代大学生性行为和性态度、性知识的特点及 关系 • 约炮 – Furman and Shaffer (2011)；Mongeau et al. (2013)
Dating culture,sexual practices ·相亲文化，约会文化 ·中国的“性革命”？ ·约炮 上游充通大学 SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY
Dating culture, sexual practices • 相亲文化，约会文化 • 中国的“性革命”？ • 约炮
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相亲文化，约会文化
Warm-up activity ·爱情是否应该是结婚最重要的条件？ -A:是 -B:否 -C:说不清 上海充通大￥ SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY
Warm-up activity • 爱情是否应该是结婚最重要的条件？ – A：是 – B：否 – C：说不清
相亲文化，约会文化 【相亲】的释义。 《现代汉语词典2002年增补本》 定亲前家长或本人到对方家相看” 《现代汉语规范词典》（2004,2010,2014) (1)互相亲近 )订婚前，男女双方及家长见面互相了解情况，去见介绍的 对象 《商务国际现代汉语词典》（2013) (1)互相亲近 (2)旧俗订婚前到对方家里相看对象，叫相亲 《商务国际现代汉语大词典》（2015) (,1)男女双方经由他人介绍而初次正式会面，进一步了解对方的情 况（八分钟约会八分种相亲） (2)彼此亲爱和好”。 对“相亲”的认知受到地域、户口、教育程度的影响 上海发通大 SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY
相亲文化，约会文化 【相亲】的释义。 《现代汉语词典2002年增补本》 “定亲前家长或本人到对方家相看” 《现代汉语规范词典》（2004，2010，2014） （1）互相亲近 （2）订婚前，男女双方及家长见面互相了解情况，去见介绍的 对象 《商务国际现代汉语词典》（2013） （1）互相亲近 （2）旧俗订婚前到对方家里相看对象，叫相亲 《商务国际现代汉语大词典》（2015） （1）男女双方经由他人介绍而初次正式会面，进一步了解对方的情 况（八分钟约会/八分钟相亲） （2）彼此亲爱和好”。 对“相亲”的认知受到地域、户口、教育程度的影响
相亲versus:约会(“自己谈”) Shen,Y.(2016).Filial Daughters?Agency and Subjectivity of Rural Migrant Women in Shanghai.The China Quarterly,vol.226,pp.519-537. ·相亲 代际差异 ·30岁+：没见面；定亲 。 30岁-：见面一 协商聘礼—给女方聘礼（订婚)—同居（被 允许的性行为) 结婚 Case:小叶 “自己谈” 婚前更加了解，有感情 省钱 Case:小月 在这两个案例中，都涉及“婚前性行为” 约会文化更加普遍，与时代变革有关 上海发通大 SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY
相亲versus约会（“自己谈”） Shen, Y. (2016). Filial Daughters? Agency and Subjectivity of Rural Migrant Women in Shanghai. The China Quarterly, vol. 226, pp. 519-537. • 相亲 – 代际差异 • 30岁+：没见面；定亲 • 30岁-：见面——协商聘礼——给女方聘礼（订婚）——同居（被 允许的性行为）——结婚 • Case：小叶 • “自己谈” – 婚前更加了解，有感情 – 省钱 – Case：小月 • 在这两个案例中，都涉及“婚前性行为” • 约会文化更加普遍，与时代变革有关
上海充通大￥ SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY CHINA'S 中国的性革命"？ Sexual Revolution OSH FREED✉MIRO CERNETIG 世 fims tne
中国的“性革命”？
中国的“性革命”？ Before 1950,'marriage was the most likely context for first sex'(Parish el.al.,2007:731) ·The Mao Era prostitution was prohibited - from"包办婚姻”to“自由恋爱” controlled behaviour:e.g.,state defined sexuality within the marital framework Post-Mao Era commercial sex industry ·Pornography ·Sex workers ·Patriarchal(消费女色，双重标准) "Greater acceptance of premarital sex and an increase in premarital sexual behavior among urban youth in the 1990s"but 'virginity complex'persists Farrer et.al.,2010) 上海文通大学 SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY
中国的“性革命”？ • Before 1950， ’marriage was the most likely context for first sex’ (Parish el. al.,2007: 731) • The Mao Era – prostitution was prohibited – from “包办婚姻” to “自由恋爱” – controlled behaviour: e.g., state defined sexuality within the marital framework • Post-Mao Era – commercial sex industry • Pornography • Sex workers • Patriarchal （消费女色，双重标准） – “Greater acceptance of premarital sex and an increase in premarital sexual behavior among urban youth in the 1990s”but ‘virginity complex’ persists（Farrer et. al.,2010）
Parish el..al.,（2007) Parish,Laumann and Mojola(2007).Sexual Behavior in China:Trends and Comparisons,Population and Development Review,Vol.33,No.4, pp.729-756. CHLS(China Health and Family Life Survey) completed during 1999-2000 Nationwide survey;sample:3766;different cohorts(1950-60) 上海通大 SHANGHAI JIAO TONG UNIVERSITY
Parish el. al., (2007) Parish, Laumann and Mojola (2007). Sexual Behavior in China: Trends and Comparisons, Population and Development Review, Vol. 33, No. 4, pp. 729-756. • CHLS (China Health and Family Life Survey) completed during 1999-2000 • Nationwide survey; sample: 3766; different cohorts (1950-60)